i am not able to bear the voice of my wife which is very loud and harsh and sounding like someone else i did not expect my wife to be too loud and harsh to me how do i counter that?
it is hurting my ears a lot…
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Maybe earplugs? Or ask her to talk quieter
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I’m sorry. Could you try wearing ear plugs when you are around her? Like when you are at home? You will still be able to hear her even with the ear plugs in. That should take the harsh, loud edge off.
Also, she might be talking loudly because of hearing loss. I myself had this problem and I talked real loud because of my poor hearing. I would suggest taking her to an audiology clinic to get her hearing tested. This test is free.
Hearing aids can cost anywhere from $250 for one, to $6,000. for a pair or more.
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Thanks a lot for the responses. I will try that and see how it works.
I think it’s common to hear some people sound harsh when you have sz and sza. You’ve heard her a long time I surmise? My mom’s voice sounds bad to me and I’ve been judgemental towards her.
Perhaps degrading ourselves and surcoming to the negative impulses of others is not the healthiest coping mechanism and can only lead to trauma.
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