Thoughts about the future

[anon57786250]

I keep thinking about my future and what lies ahead.

It would be nice to start a family, but honestly I don’t think I’ll ever match the mental and financial stress that would come along with it.

I plan on finding a job that I can actually keep for a few years, instead of a few months.

Coming into my 30’s, I have a good feeling it’ll be better than my 20s, cuz my 20s were mostly spent in hospitals and therapy.

Anyways, before I go off on a tangent, what does everyone else plan/think about their future ?

[randalthor]

I am in my mid 30s and still young, dumb and broke. I have tried every dating sites to no luck.

[Jinx]

I want to entertain people with guitar and mandolin and try to get them interested in music they never liked before. I don’t care how small an audience. I also want to write songs. I mean real songs with melodies.

I want to make a Ted talk.

I want to make an original YouTube channel.

I want to write a book that actually gets noteriety.

And maybe some other stuff.

[randalthor]

Lol l just want a girlfriend.

[SacredNeigh7]

I don’t think I will ever live with a partner again.

It was perfect living with my x in sa with dogs and perfect home and although we were together 24/7 I couldn’t get enough of him.
I treasured every moment with him and was happy and nature perfect too but I left to become vegan because he hates veganism and “wouldn’t let me”.

My boyfriend I only see weekends and he is not stable enough financially or emotionally for us to live together.
My landlady won’t let him live with me and I’m not moving in to his apartment he rents.

Think I will live in this apartment I rent rest of my life as I know the land lady.

I have family nearby.

I wouldn’t even live with a financial free man as h.
Maybe he would accept me as I am and not expect me to clean but i would be giving up this apartment and what if we broke up I would have nowhere and nothing.

Guess I might be a weekend girlfriend rest of my life.

If someone wanted to marry me or live with me they would have to bring a lot to me and make it worth my while.

So my future seems to be that if I have a boyfriend I will be weekends girlfriend.still faithful though.no sleeping around.

Continue doing what I’m doing such as exercising.

Be vegan rest of my life.

I hope to meet new people and make new friends who are good to and for me.
Beautiful people.
That I’m comfortable with and they with me.

Hopefully I won’t get lonely and will be able to take care of myself and always have a dog.

I don’t know if I will ever live anywhere else.
I miss the country so much.
Only place I truly felt at home but i don’t think I can afford living there or cope all by myself without family nearby to help me.

Marriage is only beauracracy n doesn’t prove love plus I had a delusions about someone getting paid ten million to marry me and not love me and act .

I don’t need a ceremony to prove love is real.

I feel real and genuine.
I think I know what real is.

My boyfriend and I have no contact weekdays so I don’t know if we will just be friends or if we will spend the rest of our lives seeing each other on weekends.
I do love being with him.

Have beautiful sacred eternal loving relationships I hope.

[anon61987434]

@anon57786250

what does everyone else plan/think about their future ?

I honestly have no idea at this point really……

I might want more kids, also I might not… most likely not.
I feel like I’m already failing as a parent currently and I only have a baby and a 10 year old step son.

I plan on living here at my parents or at least near my parents forever. I need the support.

I feel like my marriage is in a rocky spot so who knows where that’ll lead…

Nothing is certain.

[iconoclast_01]

For myself I’d just like to get a small piece of music done without my selfdoubt crippling the whole endeavor. I’m my own worst critic.

[Bowens]

I am looking forward to getting better at guitar in the future.

[Pat6398]

I go through good phases every month or so where I feel good enough to think about the future and it seems bright, but then I inevitably come back to the pain train and can’t operate past the next two weeks or so.

During the good times I think about having a partner or my dream job.

[anon53623539]

Haven’t got a clue, i am on survival mode everyday, i just want to get through the day.