I have high pragma (which I guess makes me pretty tradcon in some respects) but problems with eros, especially in the sexual realm of that romantic love.
I am very lost in all of these.
Lost as in confused or lost as in don’t have them?
Lost as in confused.
And there are these things called the 5 sex languages which I am even more confused about but I can’t find a link or graph so I’ll just put this youtube video and describe them.
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Sensual
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Negotiator
The five love languages are actually very straightforward. The five love languages (not the ones you posted; quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, gifts, and acts of service) reflect how you prefer to receive and give love. It’s useful to know what your partner wants and needs and makes it easier to see when they’re showing you affection versus when you THINK you’re being shown affection.
The love languages differ from the sex languages.
The sex languages I don’t know, but I do know the love languages and some very limited information on the Greek Loves.
I’ve taken a quiz on the love languages but I forgot what I’ve gotten. I try to practice them all though.
I’m an Acts of Service and Quality Time person. My bf is clearly more of a Quality Time person than me, though, since he’ll spend literally all day breathing on me lol.
What are you saying you don’t like breathing? lol
I’m saying he’s a little on the clingy side, but at least he’s more tolerant of my need for alone time now! lol It’s only taken 5 months, but he’s got it down now.
My “voice love” is mainly Eros, there isn’t a day that I don’t find myself thinking of sex related to her or with her. I’m so tired of her, sometimes I hate myself for not be good enough for her.
I wish I could find love somewhere else without thinking in her 
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