Going out on a limb here, because idk if it’s acceptable to talk about here.
Anyway, how do you feel about your libido? High? Medium? Low?
Masturbation? Yes? No? Maybe? How often?
Just wondering what my peeps think of this stuff. Let me know! I’m curious.
Libido- low.
Homosexuality - not my business who does what.
Masturbation - sometimes. Not often these days.
Meds have killed my desire. I used to be all about it.
I have to say I’m pretty much the same across the board. Thanks for your input.
pretty low sex drive. I haven’t been horny for like 18 months. on month 26 or 27 of Invega sustenna.
I occasionally masturbate but it’s not very satisfying. so I do it less and less. I just can’t really get into it. my sex life is very weird at the moment because I can get off but it’s kind of work to do so. old habits die hard I guess.
Libido is much less these days which is nice!
Sexuality. Do what makes you happy!
Masturbation. Every chance I get…which isn’t much these days!
Sex is great. Just not such a priority in my life at the moment. That isn’t a bad thing!
I guess I might average-to-low libido. I miss and think about sex sometimes, but it’s fleeting and more of just a thought than anything.
I do think my refractory period is increasing with age or the meds, so my libido follows suit.
I use to have sex and masturbate often now and again, but lately it’s other priorities that call to me. Not a bad thing, as @rogueone put it. Although sex is nice, it takes time and the right energy.
Homosexuality-if ya wanna.
I am bisexual and am currently interested in a woman who I found out is gay but her family own the place I agist.
Sexually if it’s legal and makes you happy…
Libido
My x and I only had sex once every four months and that was not enough for me.
Not that I was walking around horney but I’m affectionate and despite having early menapause I can still feel arousal.
I do not usually get turned on and I don’t usually think about sex but this woman turns me on.
I do not masturbate.
I am not that good at it or something because I find it boring and pointless for me.
Sure I can give myself a orgasm and relax but I rather not.
I rather be celibate and wait for someone else /future partner to give me a orgasm.
I’m not keen on porn.
Don’t watch it.
I have memories of being molested as a child and losing my virginity as a child to the father on paper but was told that’s not true and that it’s a delusion etc but I have like a need for comfort or that I need to comfort myself all the time.
Anyway I am not sexually active.
I want to ask this woman out but don’t want to make things awkward or complicated because I agist of her…
It’s unusual for me to feel attraction and arousal the way I do for about her.
I do not think about sex really and I am only turned on when I think of her or am around her.
I was a sl ut when I was a binge drinker I always got myself in trouble and it was so awful and I was not treated well.
After I had cancer I stopped drinking alcohol and was celibate five years or so.
I was a Muslim for one year as one of my x was a Muslim.
I prayed five times a day etc.
I am not a member of any religion now.
I do not believe as they do .far from but it has its beauty.
I am not sure what I’m like sexually.
I was dry for a while because of early menapause but after that was on supplements and was able to get really wet.
Also the strong reaction this woman has on me without even touching .
Although my libido is there low to medium I currently don’t feel like having sex, aromantic and not wanting intimacy. It’s to do with how I feel bout myself atm.feel bit disconnected from myself
Idk if it will continue like that even after this tough time if it goes away but it really powerfully does feel like that atm.
Homosexuality? Watever rocks ur boat.
My libido varies. I have a rough history with masturbation as a bisexual, always felt like two sides fighting each other. I tend to go through with it more often when I get aroused towards a female. My attraction has been pretty fluid over the years, would prefer it be 100% hetero but it’s not my choice. My relationships have always been with women, had a date with a guy and it felt incredibly weird and a little off-putting. The most annoying thing was him trying to “wear the pants” with the conversation. He’d like steer it in certain directions and like entertain certain things I said while keeping the subject focused on what he wanted to talk about. I found it condescending, objectifying, and in no way romantic. Never had that issue on a date with a female.
I said if it’s legal and makes you happy … but I change my mind because there are some pretty bad laws out there that allow rape and other nasty things.
Different countries,religions etc have different laws and some are not ok with me (like raping a child)so I take that one back
Libido - used to be high, now it is so messed up i havent got a clue. Im delusionally afraid of any intimacy (even a peck is no go) and my libido has fallen asleep with all the haldol. But i noticed before men can wake up my sex drive again if they approach me right. So theoretically - if i ever manage to get past the running off delusionally with even the most innocent hint of intimacy - i think my libido could be kickstarted again.
Homosexuality - not for me anymore, but everyone should chose for themselves.
Masturbation - sometimes, much less than before. I dont see much fun in it.
Thanks for your replies. I guess there’s nothing of too much concern for me. I just haven’t talked about this stuff before aside from bad jokes. (haha)
It’s comforting knowing I’m not the only one understanding the sex stuff. I appreciate your honesty and all. Thank you.
My libido varies, I’m gay my partner have sex sometimes often other times not for a month. I give her orgasms but I’m not keen on being touched myself. I think that has to do with the molestation when I was younger. It makes me happy to help my partner. I don’t masturbate
Libido - Normal
Homosexuality - I will probably never do anything with a guy, but hey if that’s your thing!
Masturbation - Yes, don’t think I will tell you how often though because that is none of your business lol.
The thing is I am still a virgin though. I am wondering if I left it so long I will start getting nervous or something. Who knows, maybe when I start on dating websites soon I will get it out of the way.
I believe in the art of self-love. I actually bought a prostate massanger from lovehoney along with a fleshlight. And my God its good. Im bi-sexual, and i see no harm in gaining a sexual release now and again. Its got nothing todo with my SZ btw. Woman use toys - so i thought i would treat myself. Were all consenting adults here right?
@anon19982023 I removed the part about asking people what their views on homosexuality are, as homophobia is against the rules. This is similar to asking people if they think some races are inferior. Saying such things is hateful and against the rules, and so asking people to admit such views is inappropriate. This is a support forum, so we want to keep it supportive and inclusive.
Phil and have sex a lot
he’s real giving, but sometimes I’m right there, and still can’t reach orgasm.
it all feels good though.
I have wet dreams that are real good, that’s as close as I get to masterbating.
My mistake @anon9798425 and all. I meant no offense by my question, although I guess I could’ve phrased it differently. I am accepting of all views and vibes. I don’t discriminate people based on any certain attributes, at all. Like I said, I guess I came across the wrong way and I’m sorry. I’ve never really talked that much about sex before, so I don’t know how to start off. Certainly I will continue to abide by the forum rules. Hopefully y’all understand where I’m coming from. Again, no hate intended or needed. Let’s keep this beautiful place peaceful and orderly.
Libido: Fluctuates between low and high
Masturbation: Rarely. My meds make it difficult to achieve orgasm.
I have a relatively healthy sex life currently.
