I don’t belive in self help books, self-growth or any kind of help from the outside world when is not asked for.
I think I can only change something when my mind is ready to do it, throughout changes and evolving of my values, throughout maturity and desires.
An advice is worthless because the person giving it doesn’t even come close to understanding your situation. If you choose to follow it it’s because it was already there in you, all you needed was a trigger, which was the advice.
All there is needed to change ourselfs is already in us, you want to be a millionaire? Billionaire? Presedinte? You can do it!
You want to know how? First you need qualities, because the world was build by people who have them, which makes the world easier to be navigated if you have those qualities too .
You need to be intelligent, motivated, have patience, have autocontrol, understand how language works, have control over emotions and have a deep understanding of the meaningless and humor of the world, creativity is a plus.
You could preety much succed if you have at least two of them in moderate amount. YOU DO!
You need to make a million dollars in 10 years right? How do you do it?
Use your intelligence to research information on ways to do it then use it again to choose a smarter and quicker way.
Use your motivation to become a skilled worker ,then again to be the best.
Use your language skills to con people
Use your patience to receive a inheritance
There are Manny ways which fit certain people and certain life situations, you can choose and make your own
After all, the only thing that stop us is US not other people. Other opinions, advices and critics are only a reflection of our own beliefs about the world and ourselfs, our desire.
We think others are the obstacle . We are.
We think we need to be different and exceptional to succed. We don’t. We already are
We take things to serious. And forget we’re only here a limited amount of time togheter with others, which have the same issues, desires and values as us.
We need to understand there are no limitations, only our own