So many mixed emotions. Hard to equate my experience with my father with all the gushing praise about him. Brother feels the same. The instinctive love for a parent vs the anger and hurt of not having been treated the same as our sister and stepbrother and sister. Of being the least well off and getting the least help . The self flagellation and feeling like I’m a bad person for not having purely blissfully happy memories. It’s hard , very, very, hard we’re both struggling.
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hope you can find some peace with those thoughts…God bless dude.
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I hope you’re able to overcome this.
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I’m sorry @firemonkey
I wish you some peace
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Quoting my brother. Some altering by me to avoid using Christian names Things he’s found out since going out to America to help out.
They say time heals all wounds I find this to be wrong there are some to deep to ever heal but I hope you do… Try not to let it consume you
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It is true time heals. But time goes so slow during grieving.
Take care of yourself @firemonkey
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My dad gave my sister 900 dollars every month. He told me he wouldn’t give me monthly money and I am the disabled one.
Hope you can find peace with your memories. It doesn’t sound like you were treated fairly.
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