We are all better at giving criticism than receiving it .
I’m better are criticizing myself than anyone ever could. That can be painful.
But I will admit I’m better giving it that receiving it.
I can take criticism I don’t care
I think sometimes we can be very down on ourselves. We can be acutely aware of things , but when others mention them that’s a whole different ballgame .
Sometimes I think I’m quick to criticize myself so as to dissuade other people from doing the same to me, because yeah, it can really hurt coming from someone else, depending on how it’s expressed.
Im always more critical of myself. If someone is critical of me - i will take it onboard. But usually they are wrong, cos they are either social dreggs of society or trying to manipulate a situation. If your critical of me in person - you better have some evidence - or i will come after you.
On the surface I can strongly reject criticism. Internally It’ll eat me up in a 'I’m bad/stupid/useless etc kind of way. , and make me feel crap about myself .
Sometimes i love criticism to become a better person. But it has to be reasonable and rational, and not cause someone said something.
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