i can’t make it, I still have problems with my right ankle because of the pins, screws and plates in my ankle. I am so screwed. I found some Haldol in an older bottle so at least I have that.
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You can’t justify your inlaws abuse to you.
They take control of your money and leave you without your meds, make you their servant to take care of their responsibilities, and yet they can’t see fit to help you?
It only gets worse the longer you are there.
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Well that sucks that they moved your pharmacy. You still need to go. Being on meds is important. I may sound rather put together but I would be a mess without my meds.
Man, if I were you I would be highly, highly, motivated by these peoples actions to get out of there soon. They callously risk your physical and mental health by their actions and there non-actions and they don’t care.
If it was a life or death situation for you some day, and you needed their help, do you think they would help you? Or let you die?
Can you have your meds delivered? I’m sure you have looked into this but I’m just checking.
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my partner is promising to get my meds today she said even if she has to walk there after her nap (she works third shift) before her next 15 hour shift. she knows how I am when things get rough without my meds.
I somehow doubt they are going to sell the white van to kay once she gets her license so she has to buy a car or a bigger vehicle but they suck her money dry
I know they are doing this on purpose. My in-laws are mad at me because they say I have been giving them attitude the last couple of days. They expect respect from me yet they never treat me with respect
I am so sick of this crap, my mom is pressuring me to move in with them. its very clear the only reason my in laws want me here is to take care of their animals, clean up their poop and be there little gopher (go for this go get that), they said they want me to start paying gas money to them for getting my meds and taking us to the store even though a lot of times we buy stuff for them too. how do they expect gas money when I give them 96 percent of my ssi for them to blow on stupid ■■■■. they are talking about getting another dog still another shih Tzu no one else takes responsibility for these pets.
my mother in law feeds the guinea pigs and one dog that’s it. while I take care of one dog, one cat, one rat, one parakeet, one bearded dragon and two crested geckos, I don’t mind our pets because we are responsible with them. we buy their food, vitamins and spend time with them.
You need to stop giving them money dude, you could of used that money to get a taxi to pick your meds up yourself! have you got your prescription yet?!
And about the animals,… that is a lot of animals, if she’s not taking care of all her pets, she shouldn’t be considering getting more!
And if they are mad, good! Let them be mad
Ate you still seeing gremlins? Also have you got the meds yet?
I took 2 5 mg pills of Haldol since i’m suppose to be on 10 mgs 3X a day. but yeah gremlins still skittering about like cockroaches. I don’t always see them but I do hear them.
and no I haven’t gotten my pills. I have 4 5mgs left of Haldol and a bunch of Ativan still so I think I can make it still Monday when my partner goes back on her normal shifts.
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my partner said she will get them just let her try to work on her parents getting them to forgive me for supposedly giving them attitude. I am so close to just saying screw it and say ■■■■ the meds and let me go to the hospital maybe then they will see how serious this is! my partner doesn’t like that idea and said she never wants me to intentionally go without pills again.
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What they are doing to borders on abuse. I live with my inlaws too but fortunately they are some what supportive and sometimes pick up my meds when wife and i cant get to the pharmacy for whatever reason. If i have to go without meds for a few days i usually try to sleep as much as possible, this may be a strategy u can use especially if u have a bunch of ativan. Anway your situation sucks sorry bro just hang in there as best u can.
Reminds me how lucky I am to be able to afford my own place and own car. Very sorry you’re not so lucky.
Tell your inlaws that the cops don’t care about any of those meds.
the said they are going to take me to get them tomorrow but we will see. but I bet they will yell at me about the laundry. we have a pile of clean laundry of hang up clothes that my partner usually does but she hasn’t done it in over two weeks so the hang up clothes are piled up. I put up the towels, underwear, pajama clothes, socks and bras away every time we do laundry.
@cbbrown have you gotten your meds yet? If not, I want you to call the number for the local women’s shelter in your area. You just can’t stay somewhere where people abuse you so badly. You and your partner could apply for section 8 housing and get away from this horrible living situation. If she won’t come with you, maybe you could go on your own for a bit, while she works up the courage to leave. Your in laws are intentionally trying to make you have a psychotic episode to punish you, and that is clear abuse. Get the hell out of there.
yeah I got them after I helped vacuumed out the red van. I have looked for a women’s shelter in my area its in another town, about a thirty minute drive. my father in law claimed I just need to speak up more and I could have gotten my meds sooner. but I did speak up sooner its just they felt it wasn’t a big concern. I feel stressed out my in laws are wanting me to have a meltdown my partner is trying to protect me and my mother is making things worse by opening up old wounds that I don’t even want to think about.
I don’t think going to your mom is a good idea either. She wants your money, too. If you call the women’s shelter, they can probably have someone come pick you up. They do that. They can also help you get started on section 8 housing paperwork and guide you through the process. Think about how much happier you would be living somewhere where nobody was abusing you.
What your father in law is currently doing is called gaslighting you. He is trying to make you believe that what you remember happening isn’t really what happened. This is another type of abuse and it is especially cruel to do it to someone who is already mentally ill. You know what happened, though. And you need to go somewhere where you will be safe.
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they tried to get us to fight, but It didn’t work. they said I didn’t let the dog out till after one o clock. I let her out at 4:30am and then again at 10:30 am and she said I didn’t let her out till after noon. then they said I just sat on the bed rocking back and forth as their daughter cleaned the apartment which also isn’t true. I am pissed off I don’t want to see them for a few days maybe even longer. but they need me Friday to get the money out of the bank for our rent. I’m thinking of going to see my parents for the next few weeks just before I get paid so I can be there when my mom has her surgeries.
Maybe you should be too busy to get them their money for a week. Then you can tell them if they really wanted it, they should have spoken up more.
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make them beg… and vacuum out the red van again… apparently you hold all the dam cards anyway… I would have a “family” meeting and list off the changes you require to keep giving them cash… if they kick you out can they pay for much by themselves? seems like without you and your mate they would be up ■■■■ creek… they should be nicer…
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