Sometimes I think people here don’t like me

Not many people talk to me or respond to my posts. I’m sure it’s all in my head but I can’t help but feel people think I’m annoying or something.

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I think u are a cool guy

You like science and photography thats great.

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Thank you!

I’m sure it’s all in my head. Maybe my posts aren’t interesting enough lol

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Idk why you think that. Maybe a bit of a dent in your confidence but i think your posts are ok. I usually read them.

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Dude if I left this forum not one person would miss me I don’t give it darn. It’s better that way.

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Some of my threads and posts get a lot of responses, but most of mine don’t. It’s just the nature of the game.

What I think is interesting or a good response doesn’t always resonate with other people. That’s okay! It doesn’t mean no one likes me. For what it’s worth I’m also horrible at handing out likes or always responding to people, even in my own threads.

You’re cool and I like your photography, keep posting.

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I don’t think I’ve had a chance to talk to you much. I haven’t been on a the forum a whole lot. But you seem cool to me. Don’t worry, lots of people might be feeling the same way, when in reality, most forum posters are pretty cool.

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I’m always thinking this: that I’m the most hated, reviled, avoided and ignored person on this forum and frankly most every where else. In short, you’re not alone @PhotoGuy.

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I feel the same way sometimes. I think people find what i say on here annoying or something. Not always though. Must mostly be a paranoia or sz thing to think this. Cause lots of sz forum members feel this way too. You seem like a cool chap to me.

Once in a while, I get plenty of Likes and responses. Other times I do not.
I always read your posts. And you are always helpful and nice. On the other hand, I can be difficult and arrogant, so I consider this when I notice a lack of attention in my direction. Im confrontational and aggressive as a person, even though pursuing sainthood. But I doubt that applies to you - as I say, you always post friendly and nice stuff. Interesting stuff, too!

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You seem like a nice and introspective fella. You have good insight into your illness and challenge paranoia with threads like these. I respect you. You’re a smart guy imo.

90% of my post usually get like 1 or 2 replies. And most of the time when I reply people dont always respond to them lol

I have this feeling to but I think its more about a warped perspective. Before I was sick and had to deal with negative emotions everyday I almost never felt a ton of people “cared” about me..maybe my family and 2or3 friends. It didn’t bother me for people to not care. ..I think its actually normal.

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I use this site as a journal. If people reply okay but if not that’s fine. Just filling everyone in on my life. I think a lot of people do use it that way as well.

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If other people dislike you for no good reason then it’s their problem not yours.

I think you brought this up a few times already. I read the forum everyday. I’ve never read anything bad about you. You just seem like a young, curious guy exploring his interests and sharing them online. This might be personality related. You ever take a personality test? Or read about personality types to see if you have anything in common with them. I hate posting anything that comes across as even mild criticism because people get defensive, more so people with schizophrenia that have open wounds due to trauma from the illness. I wish you well on your journey. Good things.

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I have taken personality tests several times. Sometimes I get INFP and other times an INTP

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Sometimes, I feel the same way. I guess there are fewer people here as well lately.

Sorry for asking this numerous times. I’m nutty.

I get the same kind of feelings. Not just here. In fact less here, than elsewhere. I’ll delete posts after a while if there hasn’t been a response to them.

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