My friend just bought tickets to see it with her on Tuesday evening at 7:45 pm.
I don’t care much for it, I have not seen part 1 or 2 but I know the storyline.
Who else will watch it?
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Sorry,
Haven’t seen any of them and don’t care to.
If I need to see people do it,
I’ll watch porn.
If I want to watch poor acting and bad writing,
I’ll watch an Adam Sandler movie.
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I know, right? And all his movies are successful!
Apparently the book is badly written. I don’t care much for the movie. I like comedy and Bollywood anyway.
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All I know about it comes from my friend who was obsessed with the books.
I hate it cause of my past trauma and its just kinda gross. Like the relationship isn’t even a healthy one why is everyone so obsessed with it
It’s not even good porn I don’t understand
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majority of people are fascinated with stupid stuff.
I mean look at Kim Kardashian. She posts pictures of her aSS on Instagram, 2 million people like it and call her babe, you’re a star! Her face is not even in the picture.
Conclusion: People are dumb. So if you do dumb things to entertain people, you will become successful.
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i saw a commercial for it on my youtube videos, is it like a romance movie? or sort of like mainstream erotica? it must be big if theyre advertising it to me!
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I saw the first film. It’s like Beauty and the Beast, adult version.
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over rated. hate it
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Not intrested in watching others fetishes. I have my own to attend to.
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oh, we’ve all been there
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This entire movie series is completely problematic. This (and the books) romanticize non consensual sex. (They literally try to make rape sexy)
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i never watched the book or read the movie, but you’ve never heard of consensual rape play as a sexual fetish?
some people enjoy pretending they are being restrained or raped, or some people just prefer roughness in the sex act.
i think what they do in these books is more along the lines of sm type stuff. blindfolds, tying each other up etc. at the end of the day as long as no one is getting hurt its all just silly fetishes, and hopefully no one gets harmed or damaged against their will.
just like people who like to dress up in big baggy animal costumes and have sex, they aren’t actually harming animals so its just kinky roleplay which excites for whatever reason
rape is a very serious crime, what they are doing in these books is harnessing that taboo and turning it into some kind of sexual thrill
like riding a rollercoaster or skydiving with a parachute, going into a haunted house. you feel close to danger but always have your safety words or whatever to make sure the act remains consensual
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Don’t get me wrong, I’m a ■■■■■■■ freak in the sheets. I have absolutely no issue with BDSM, but I have an issue with non consensual sex. I’m not fridged.
Sorry didn’t you say you didn’t read the book/watch the movie?
the so-called romantic relationship between Christian and Ana was characterised by intimate partner violence.
Using the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s definitions, researchers found that emotional abuse and sexual violence were pervasive throughout, noting that emotional abuse was present “in nearly every interaction”.
Researchers identified various instances of sexual violence, including Christian initiating sexual encounters while angry, ignoring Ana’s boundaries and using threats and alcohol to compromise Ana’s consent.
For example,
“No, please. I can’t do this. Not now. I need some time. Please.”
“Oh Ana, don’t overthink this.”
“No,” I protest, trying to kick him off. He stops. “If you struggle, I’ll tie your feet too. If you make a noise, Anastasia, I will gag you.”
(they didn’t talk about this before hand, so it isn’t that kinky fantasy rape you’re talking about.)
Christian’s self-admitted inability to leave Ana alone shouldn’t be romanticized, nor should his controlling, domineering behavior be conflated with sexual dominance.
This man forces this woman to carry a Blackberry and have a computer, both of which she objects to numerous times, and then is reluctant to use, leading to ever-more inappropriate outbursts from him.
He doesn’t want her to take a business trip because he is jealous, and when she tries to shut him down, he uses his immense wealth and privilege to buy her company and then cancel the business trip.
He buys her not one car but two which are equipped with GPS tracking devices, so that he can find her at all times. He dictates what she will wear. He ambushes her with a haircut that she didn’t ask for. And then there’s the body and food policing, which is beyond ■■■■■■ up.
A man with impulse-control issues is not sexy. He’s disturbing. Impulse-control problems indicate that he is not in conscious control of his actions.
If he shows up at your job when you’ve specifically told him not to, then he has boundary issues. He’s trying to control you life, and if it was a person to whom you were not sexually attracted, you’d be calling the police.
Also, he’s constantly “mad” at her, and she is constantly worried that he’s going to lose control and beat her. Um, that’s not sexy, that’s scary and abusive. Also, that is in absolutely no way what dom-sub relationships are about.
PS: There’s also a ■■■■■■■■ of problematic virgin-rhetoric and slutshaming, which I also didn’t have time to get into.
Just wondering, why on earth defend something that you have literally no understanding of?
Anyways, as someone who has been raped, I personally cannot handle it, it’s much too triggering.
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probably not even her aSS
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Sorry. I know I just word vomited all over this thread, but I feel that you should know about this if you don’t know about the movies or books.
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Id rather just watch porn. Tmi. Pretty much the same. 50 shades is like if adult cinemax got a big budget movie
wow, you really don’t like these books! well, i never considered them worth my time so i didn’t read them, i just assumed based off your comment that they was rapey stuff going on in them and went from there… not much else to say, im still reeling from your reply, you pay so much attention to detail!
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Haha yeah, but at the end of the day it is my opinion and others might like it. I just find things like that pretty disturbing, I would much rather watch BDSM porn
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