Question for ladies (Bra)

I hate wearing bra! No matter what kind of bra I wear, it’s always super duper uncomfortable.

Would it be very wrong to never wear it? :smiley:

I mean… I have a medium, or a bit smaller than medium bust. So, it’s very seen when I am without bra.
Any alternatives?:smiley:

The only thing I can tolerate are sport’s bras.

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I went through a never wearing a bra phase for a few years.

But I finally (at 30 years old) found the type of bra I like. And the right size.

Anyways, they’re wired, unlined bras. So there’s zero padding.

I also say that it’s totally acceptable to not wear a bra! :metal: As long as that’s what makes you happy and comfortable!

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I dunno, I’d have to take a closer look before giving an informed opinion.

:clown_face:

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Ohh I would love to stop wearing Bras forever! :smiley: but at least while I am still living with my parents, they can say it’s inappropriate etc etc.

But overall, maybe I also one day will find a good likeable bra.

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Oh. My. God. @Andrey :joy::joy:

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Sorry, I get excited when the work week is over, and say silly things.

I could wear bra too, A size maybe. Got man-tits. Not sexy :pensive:

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Obligatory not a lady, but I wear sports bras exclusively. I have a very large chest though. Think GG cups. So I have to wear something or else the weight of them hurts me.

That said, if I had a smaller chest I would go bra-less all day every day. It’s just so much more comfy than caring what others think.

Unless I lived in a very culturally modest country, I will always choose no bra over bra.

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My head looks like it needs one

my forehead

Some weird growth on my forehead :hushed:

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Thanks for this,
You helped me a bit to realise my comfort is more important!!
I truly never found a comfortable bra. That’s why I think I need to stop wearing them entirely

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I only wear sports bras.

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100% this. And if you’re uncomfortable at home because of your parents then you can always get silicone nipple covers. Plus they’re reusable!

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i wear bra with zero padding too, otherwise my boobs look too big =D

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I’m 50 years old and the only time i wear a bra is when i wear a sports bra to swim in. I haven’t worn bras for years and, i must confess, that the “sisters” sag a little…but i wear scrub tops almost exclusively and nobody can tell that the sisters are hanging loose. I do have relatively small sisters, tho, never had kids…

im curious why do u wear scrub tops? r those like those kind nurses wear?

When my daughters were around 8 years old, my wife had done a fresh load of laundry…with her bra on top… and left it in the apartment hallway.

As it was a very hot day, I wasn’t wearing a shirt. I put on my wife’s bra and started scolding the girls (Do this!! Don’t do that!!)…in a high pitched voice.

My daughters thought my imitation of Mom was hysterical! So much so that they went to school the next day and told their teacher that daddy wore Mom’s bra! Of course there was no context whatsoever and guess who was a no-show for the next parent/ teacher interviews! :laughing:

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I personally prefer to wear a bra because I’m very large breasted (just got professionally sized and I’m a J cup - no joke!).

It would be very attention seeking for me to go braless as people everywhere would be staring.

Plus, I don’t want sexual attention,

I feel best in a bra that fits well like I just bought. I like that it holds me up and in and minimizes my breast size a bit.

I’m not saying it’s fair, but when women go out without a bra on, they tend to get a lot of sexual attention. Is that right? NO. But is it going to happen whether it’s ok or not? YES.

So make your decision based on how comfortable you’ll be not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well.

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I almost never wear a bra.:slightly_smiling_face::love_you_gesture:t4::pray:t4::two_hearts:

Free them titties!

Women in the 60s burned their bras for woman’s rights.

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I never get sexual attention by not wearing a bra .
I’ve got small tits.

Women wear short skirts and cleavage n all sorts.

I’m just comfortable with out.
Bras are uncomfortable for me.

A woman should not be disrespected or harassed for not wearing a bra.

Think of the hippies !

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@SacredNeigh7 I agree they shouldn’t be harassed for it. Unfortunately, they often are.

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This was me most of my life. Recently, I stopped getting pain from the weight. I’m not exactly sure why. I’ve been doing a lot of core training, but I had done that before also. I even did targeted PT specifically for the upper back pain of carrying these things around. For whatever reason, I can now comfortably go around without support.

@anon8411913 it’s all down to your comfort level. If you rely on someone else for housing, you have to respect their standards, but have you talked to them about it yet? And if they are bothered by the idea of you going out without a bra, you can always just layer up until you leave. I am extremely larger than average in that area, and nobody can tell when I’m not wearing a bra if I just throw on a baggy sweatshirt or jacket first.

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