So for the past number of years my Father has given me $2,000 at Christmas time.
I’m really broke right now and want to have a less stressful holiday with Hon and the girls. Would it be presumptuous to ask my Dad for a $1,000 loan, and then pay him back after the holidays? I don’t want to take advantage of his generosity, but I could really use the money up front.
1,000 is a lot of money. If it’s not a financial strain to him. We sometimes in the past have asked for financial help, but we’ve made sure to pay them back right away. It would probably help to be specific about what you are spending it on. As it is your dad.
Your Dad just GIVES you 2 grand at Christmas?!? Personally, I would just be thankful that I got sh*t but I suppose you think bigger the more they give. It’s an ugly cycle. Good luck.
I’d explain to your dad the situation then ask for half your Xmas present. I wouldn’t say a dollar amount. Then again I don’t know your relationship dynamics etc.