I need a bit of distraction.
What was the last nice thing someone did for you?
I need a bit of distraction.
What was the last nice thing someone did for you?
My friend yesterday bought me lunch.
Last nice thing
Am I ungrateful or I just can not think of something?!
Last nice thing was actually really funny. I was asleep and my cat just was leaning on me with her tummy and I remember in my sleep, i thought this cat is so soft! Lol I am grateful to have this cat I guess 99% of the time 
My friend yesterday turned me down when I offered to buy him an ice cream 
He knows Iâm not exactly rich right nowâŚ
So his gesture was nice and considerate, but I wouldâve wanted him to accept that goddam ice cream⌠
My friend wanted to take me out for food, so she treated me to buffalo wild wings and then got me a michelada, too! after that, she paid for us to play pool and bought me another drink! Sheâs a sweetheart.
I wish I had the money to buy her stuff, too!
The last nice thingâŚhmm, oh yeah. Someone offered to trim my hair for free. I duly accepted her offer! 
One of the guys here in my house whoâs about ten year older than me (He fought in Vietnam which impressed me) is always friendly to me. I really donât know who to trust anymore but this guy seems sincere and he just seems like a nice humble guy. I have many bad days but when he sees me he cheers me up without even knowing it with his friendliness.
Someone treated me to Starbucks.
Some anonymous person left a big chocolate freckle that said Thanks on my desk with a lovely note saying how much they appreciated me. No one has owned up to leaving it for me. ITâs a mystery.
My co-person got a Snuggle Kitty for my high-anxiety cat. It has a heartbeat to comfort her by reminding her of snuggling with her mother. So far it has seen her safely through garbage day and a thunderstorm 

That just goes to show you that you can be a success as a human being even if your circumstances are humble.
I talked to an old friend on the phone today 
That was really nice.
I have been very stressed lately, and I tend to be a talker. My friends have been very kind in listening to me repeat the same things over and over obsessively, and reassuring me that I can handle everything.
I send my best friend my doodles in marker and colored pencilâŚmostly stuff that looks psychedelic with âthe beach boysâ written above itâŚor a rolling stones tongue and lips with daisies surrounding itâŚhe loves them and he has a collection of everything Iâve given himâŚI love this guy and his family !!
oh god tell me about it! I am the same and I guess I should be grateful for my friends too ![]()
and hope you are well BTW!
@mermaid1, I noticed what you said you ate today. I would feel awful too, if all I had was some chocolate, French fries, and a bit of chicken. Malnutrition can have a very negative impact on your mood. Iâve noticed my mood is much more stable ever since I started eating a large, protein-rich breakfast. Do you at least take vitamins?
I swear I do. Most days I eat a lot. I am very depressed lately. I am exhausted and âforcing myselfâ through everything. I do not move much during the day other than some cleaning so if I eat 1200 calories, it is enough.
I will start gym soon so I will have to eat better. Just trying to get my fix with L Theanine, honestly I can no longer tolerate the anxiety. I am emotionally exhausted.
Have you thought about protein shakes for the days when you canât force yourself to eat? Most of them are packed with vitamins. Theyâre not a perfect solution, but they could help on your bad days.
my parents do a lot of good things to me.
I am infinitely grateful to them.
awwww your co-person spent forty bucks on a little stuffed animal to soothe your cat? That is TOO CUTE!
I had to see what this snuggle kitty was about, so Iâve been reading amazon reviews. Iâm wondering if maybe my high-octane cat will be soothed to quit bouncing off the walls if I were to get this for him, too! Itâs an investment, at 40, but hey, I just spent 15 on a velvety cat bed that my cat refuses to use, so throwing money away at my cat isnât a deterrent. lol.
Also, your cat is adorable and has pupils the size of dishes.