Libido!So much about sex

Why most of people,not only in this forum,who are sick,talk so often about sex side efect,like we gonna have some?After years of meds,i only hope that the erection will go away at some time,so it did at the age of 40.I’m sex free and happy about it.(don’t mix sex with emotions).

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Still no reply.I thought someone will share his opinion about this matter…

I think a lot of them are young and full of raging hormones. They’re also new to medication and sz and think that the world is coming to an end if they have any issues with sex.

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Thanks for reply.It just fascinates me how much people think the sex will save their need for affection.

O.o some people are in relationships or looking for it… Some do get some. It is not all black and white :))

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You’re not schizo so you don’t understand effort that person with sch must take to win someone’s attention .

Pretty sure it would take me no more than 10 minutes to get some by using certain websites…

So are you talking about unnecessary discussions about sexual side affects or winning someone’s attention when you have a severe mental illness?
Those are two different subject.

BTW I hate the ‘you don’t understand’ argument.
How the ■■■■ you know I don’t understand?

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As much as I can understand your position, the truth is that there are many aspects of schizophrenia that you don’t experience with your illness. You shouldn’t get offended when people bring this up.

It is bs. There is no universal schizo get-laid-problem that non-sz people cannot comprehend.

I’m sorry,but I had very much problem about morning erections for years,and I’m glad that dissapeared.Didn’t want to afend anyone,just saying sex is overated,for those who did not have any in life.

In this situation, I agree. But being offended when you’re told, on a forum for schizophrenia, that you don’t understand schizophrenia when you’re not in fact schizophrenic isn’t something to get offended about.

You’re right Mr.Right.
You are completely right.

Actually people writing drugs side effect just for inform people who are willing to take the drug.it some kind of journal or chronicles that warn people.if you do not have sexual concern thats really great news.because sex can be very problematic issue.but most of the people who are willing to take drugs; sexual side effect is very crucial things and its affect their choices of drugs drammatically.but i m really happy for you.sex free life is wonderful thing.

I’m not so worried about having sex, as I am in finding someone who is compatible with me. If I find that person, the physical attraction will be part of that.

Thanks,that was my point from the start.Only finding that person is very hard,but in my neighborhood one my friend find very beautiful girl and now they are married.I hope it will happen to me at some point.

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Sarad,I’m not intelectual as you are,possible as loss of my abilities to differ what I said,so I really don’t understand what you brought to this thread.Without any animosity I say that I didn’t want to discriminate anyone,especially you.Only thing I wanted to hear is perspective of people with sch,because they understand difficulty of bonding with opossite sex.My apology again.

I have no problem bonding with the opposite sex. My problem is finding someone of the same sex who is interested in more than sex and who I am interested in too. Don’t like the way you generalize but I think I get what you are saying. A lot of people with sz have difficulties with socializing, which translates to problems forming romantic relationships. But not everyone with sz is the same way.

It may be true,as I understand you want a same sex partner.I imagine how dificult is to achive.

Not much more difficult, I think. I just have to go places online and IRL where I can meet other gay men. It’s not like I live in Russia or any place like that where being gay is not acceptable.