sorry for going on about dating again i am just so obsessed about it, i can’t get it out of my head
i can’t go out tonight bc i don’t think i can handle going out to pubs and clubs on a friday night and i am worried if i do that i will make a complete fool of myself,
i mean no offence but what if i meet some woman that just wants a one off and then i can’t perform and she tells all of her friends?,
i just want to meet a nice girl like the one in my class who is 16 only a bit older, i think i like the younger women better because they are more fun and they have an innocence about them that i love but i could not date a 16 year old as i am 32 and i always seem fall for the more unobtainable ones,
my sister says that i am a very fussy person, i hate staying in on a friday night
Have you considered doing some volunteer work or participating in community clubs? Great way to meet ladies with interests that are similar to yours without the pressure of clubbing or pubbing. Would also recommend trying to date closer to your own age range. You’ll have better luck getting a lasting relationship going with someone who has enough life experience to understand your situation. Not to knock the younger folk, but those around and under twenty years of age have rapid shifts in their expectations in a mate before the age of twenty-five. That will play havoc with your nerves.
Maybe you should lower your sights. There are a lot of females out there who are diamonds in the rough. They just need a little TLC to blossom out. When I look back on some of the women I passed up I could kick myself. Now I’m 55 and never married. I’m not bitter about it, but I think maybe I could have had a better life if I had gotten married.
With all respect … And maybe I am the only one who thinks like this but…
I wouldn’t be happy if my 16 year old daughter came home with a 32 year old man… Or if my 32 year old son came home with a 16 year old girl…
If your 32 why would you want to find a 16 year old girl to be in a relationship with?The age gap might be a little too much.If I am 32,I will find woman who are around 28-32 years old,we might think more similarly and our thinking would not be of huge gap…
Is your antipsychotic affecting your performance?you could talk to your doctor,sex is important I feel
Make sure the person you do end up dating is a consenting adult obviously. I know this differs around the world what the age of consent is, but where I live it is 18.
Um lol you need to try online dating. I wouldn’t just go to a pub and hunt for barely legal women like you said. That made me laugh. I am 21 and I stay far the hell away from teenagers, even 18 and 19 year olds, I was a ■■■■ mess at those ages and didn’t know real life. I tend to date people who are in their mid twenties now, the guy I am dating now is 26. I’ve never been intimate with anyone younger than me. I quit going to the gay club because I got too much attention.
Online dating. Plenty of fish and OKcupid are both good. I’ve met good people on both sites. I am dating someone from PoF right now.
And I like people to be innocent too, but only if they have a good reason and arent just immature.
I mean I like classy people who haven’t had many partners, but an 18 year old virgin is like no, practically a child in my opinion, would not put my ziggy in an 18 year old. Would not even flirt with an 18 year old. Let the 18 year olds experience things with other people their age. There was this girl at a party this summer and me and two other early 20’s guys were asking each other if we knew how old she was. Turned out she had just graduated high school, so we were all like “no way”.
When I flirt, it’s rather obvious. My eyes dilate and I get into people’s personal space when I am flirting. Like I put my hand on someones leg or touch their ass. Usually flirting for me consists of dirty dancing or moving my hand closer and closer to the person’s crotch. lol anything else is just me being logical and using proper English, which isn’t “cool”.
The reality of innocent YOUNG people is that they are immature. Innocent but MATURE people have good reasons to be innocent- they are usually just really good people who are looking for people as kind as they are. Am speaking from experience but I dont feel like getting that into my personal life right now, so I will use my parents as an example- they were both virgins and in their late twenties when they met each other, if I am not mistaken. They have only had sex with each other, which I cannot imagine, I have had sex with four people and consider that to be a conservative number. They were both devout Catholics.
i would never date a 16 year old and they would never date me and thats for sure haha so don’t worry if i may have given anyone the wrong idea, i think my limit is 26-35
and i am not very good on those dating websites as i get very down on myself very fast and i don’t even have the balls to msg anyone lol, i have only ever been with one woman in my life tbh and she was 15 yrs older than me, we are still friends tho.
My 17 year old sis met a 62 year old hippy glass blower and brought him home for dinner… I was ready to lose my mind. My Dad was polite but having a hard time… My Mom was ready to kill, my brothers were ready to kill… It was a dinner we will never forget.
He never laid a hand on her… It wasn’t until After dinner was over that she revealed that she was hoping Dad could help him connect with some others in the art community.
i am just so obsessed about it, i can’t get it out of my head
