Do you think that if you fall in love at first sight with someone (by the way they look, their gaze, facial expressions and body movement; in general, the way he or she makes you feel) they feel something aswell towards you? Or it´s just an unfounded lie you often tell to yourself?
If a beautiful person (depending on what you are into) seems to be happy to see you then you are likely to fall in love with them and whether you realize it or not you will probably reciprocate.
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No it is definitely not always reciprocated.
I know from experience
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maybe I have just been lucky (or not, putting it into perspective) in the past, but I think one of the reasons the attraction is that big is because the other person is feeling (or faking) something aswell… IDK to be honest.
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Hm i don’t know either tbh.
I’m just thinking about this man who was attracted to me and although I was attracted to him in some fractional respect, on the whole I was not, and with time this became much clearer.
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It is interesting though… That yes when someone is truly attracted to me, it does at least sometimes attract me to them on a fractional level at least. Though am not sure that is always the case
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I don´t mean just attraction. For example, the first time I saw her I wasn´t able to speak to anybody until she left. I was shocked. Now we chill and have fun together no problem, and I think the attraction can be mutual (at least in my weird mind)
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Ofcourse the attraction can be mutual. Just not sure it is always the case.
Yea I know that feeling you describe. It’s really strong.
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I think true love wanders off and never consents to the binds of marriage.
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I got to say… It is so cool when the feeling is reciprocated… And most importantly, you actually feel it is from the other… 
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It was for hubby and I.
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Same. It was a magical experience. We’re still in love, almost married for 8 years.
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We’ll have made 22 this year.
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That’s all it is 
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people believe it if it happened to them
people dont believe it if it didnt
i dont think it will again but i happened to love a girl and still kinda do and it was love at first sight for me but i think it was unrequited love…she’ll never understand how much i loved her. it was hard. oh well she wasnt the one for me but i did love her.
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Congratulations @anon4362788
It’s a great thing, to be bound together that long.
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Thanks @anon42606141
Wasn’t always easy, but was worth it.
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every time I fall in love it was mutual, at least for a while…I couldn’t hold onto relationships when I was prodromal, which spiraled my depression and anxiety. but true love is mutual, usually at first glance…
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Ive always looked at love at first sight as infatuation.
Ive had that and it was usually with the wrong gal lol.
So i was more cautious after that and let things unfold more slowly. Im also not a touchy feely type of person so maybe thats a bit different.
I remember in kindergarten we were playing hospital and this one girl was the nurse and she was doing a checkup and i was immediately in love. And she said what are you looking at? I was speechless 
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If its not reciprocal on her part then its just you with the feelings, dont make advances to her and safe it for someone who actually likes you
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