I am a bit sad about it tonight… I thought my scars and dilated pores were smaller, but not anymore… In fact, I pick hardly my skin since decades so I damaged it…
Is it such a problem for a girl to have many pores, holes and some scars on my face?
I had a perfect skin and with this illness I ruined it… I don’t want to think negatively anymore much about my body, but its a pity that I ruined my skin 
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I have some scarred pores on my face.
left behind from picking.
I think they can suit me as long as I appreciate them and not shun them.
they are part of wat made me who I am today.
having said that, smooth skin is coooooool too 
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I use this one to keep my skin non oily so to prevent too much pore clogging
and also exfoliate twice a week to get the deeper debris out
plenty of good fluid and avoiding processed food, if possible, has helped me, so far too to prevent further spotty issues,
wenever I eat too processed I see it on my skin
my body is very sensitive to food
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Thanks, dear 
Well, I almost never had an acne in fact… I just had blackheads on which I was hard and my pores are now almost all over my face,very big ones, plus even scars … I still am not stable mentally, but now I just see those pores and scars and it scares me… But the goal, like you say, is to say and feel one day, that this picking of mine made me the better person who i’lll be, I hope, yeap
I just wonder how some men will react on my ruined skin? But I have no choice lol, ill have to accept this too .
For the rest, I take care of my skin, but there’s no treatment for dilated pores and scars… Even not a laser can help, plus I don’t even want to do it still…
the good thing is that skin is still healthy, just scarred.
I still hav problems accepting it too, it is just so there but I think with time it will become easier.
I don’t know. but I think our attitude towards them (the scars on face) would make a difference in that department.
it is not easy thou yep I know.
I still have hopes of being 100 prcnt ok with it, im at 20 prcnt right now cos of certain reasons
Yes, ill try to get used too For the rest, I am still so ill mentally, that I should work on this toughly now mostly too… But all my body is in poor state. 20 years of isolation for me, yes… But at least, I calmed down a bit on having a partner now, its just not possible. I cant even sit on a coffee outside still so the other issues are bigger I guess…
But anyway…
Do you still hydratate your face skin with some creams? We need this even if there are big pores, isn’t it?
I don’t moisturise my face, it just clogs my pores
I might need to consider a cleansing creamer at some point depending on how essential moisturising is.
idk…
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I use Sea Breeze for my skin.
my skin is a mess from acne too, but i dont bother with women in a romantic sense so it doesnt bother me as much
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