I'm not going to masturbate for a year

  • Good luck!
  • Uh… good luck I guess?
  • Why? Masturbation is natural and healthy
  • That’s stupid

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Where’s all of the above :joy:

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You going to squirt in your dreams.

I can understand quitting porn… but masturbation?

Yeah … good luck I guess.

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I can understand quitting masturbation but I can’t understand quitting porn.

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Yeah porn without touching urself. Good luck.

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I masturbate one time every two months.

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Haven’t you got imagination?

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The thing is it doesn’t benefit me in any way. I feel pleasure for a couple of minutes, then I’ll have lower mood afterwards for days. I think abstaining definitely does something postiive to your mind, even if it’s just a subtle change, but that’s just my experience.

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I masturbated this morning without porn when I woke up. TMI!!! Get over it :triumph:

Yes I have imagination

I think you got it backwards :joy:

What do I have get over? What means TM ?

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That’s a tall order. I understand you might feel the need to reduce your sexual impulses, or quit unnatural sexual outlets like porn, but it’s hard doing a year of no sexual activity. Maybe try something more achievable like once a week or two times a month, at least to start with.

I totally get you though. I’m trying to quit porn, and I want to reduce masturbation to a minimal. I think I can do it, but a lot of it is identyfing your triggers.

For me it can be things like:

  • spending too much time online, being bored while on the computer
  • consuming exessive amounts of alcohol
  • daytime fantasies
  • not excersising
  • spending too much time indoors
  • getting stressed
  • getting over excited
    ++

So the best way to quit is to identify your triggers and try to avoid them or find ways to balance them out…like for example meditating if you get stressed. It’s all about self disipline.

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How often do you do it now??? Because I think limiting might help but maybe not abstaining completely. It’ll happen in your sleep naturally anyways. You’ll have sexual dreams even maybe.

I do it a lot but I’m not bothered by it anymoRe but I used to. But now I have an acceptance

There was one point I limited it to 1x per week. But gawd I’m one person with a lot of libido mtfker

TMI…too much information

Why get stressed at all ?

Do what’s right for you. If you want to quit then go for it. If you need a release, then give yourself release. Everybody is different. I don’t masturbate either.

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It’s unavoidable. I work in a busy shop and also I am on a low dose of meds. You feel stress more easily when mildly medicated. But stress is a normal part of life so I wouldn’t want it any other way. If you don’t know stress you can’t appreciate relaxing.

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I masturbate cause it feels good. Why should I deny myself a good feeling ?

I do it about once every other week. I want to go a year now because I want to see if there’s benefits beyond the longest time I’ve gone without masturbating, which I guess is maybe a couple of months or something. (can’t remember)

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Masturbation is the :old_key: to success

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