My mother had such a happy pregnancy carrying what she thought would be her baby boy. Unfortunately, it was all in her imagination. What a disappointment I am when I’m in sight! I am a girl. Pretending to be a boy still gives me a high -with a bit of a headache to go with it.
(I was born decades before there was any way to know baby’s sex before birth.)
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You should be proud of being a girl, woman, female that you are.
Let go of being an imaginary boy because it was just to please your mother.
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I was given my father’s name because I was his third girl, and he’d given up hope of having a boy. Always talked about not having one.
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im sorry you had to deal with your mom and dad not open to you for being their sweet boy
my cousins did that
they named one child after her grandma
the second child after her mom
the third after her father (same they gave up on a boy)
then got surprised with a forth child a boy and named him after the father a junior
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