Identity Confusion

Do you ever feel confused by your social skills.

I do.

But you know what, it’s not the end of the world, I hope!!!

Because things could be horrific.

Practice makes perfect.

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I feel confused by everything, including what you just said lol

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Lol @zwolfgang no problems.

I actually am not sure how else to explain it.

Basically depending on what environment I’m around for the day, my ways of communicating seem to change a lot.

It is annoying but I’m trying to learn to work with it.

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Communication is hard for me too

I think my emotions are very connected o my ability to express myself. Good for you for learning to work with it, I still need to figure that out

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Thankyou so much. I’m still in the process of learning it’s an uphill process but not smooth and not steep haha.

Take care :slight_smile:

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i feel like i am always contradicting myself, feels like others would find it hard to believe what i do or people think i am a lying, its so hard to explain i confuse myself a lot too.

I feel like i am very misunderstood but then people probably dont even know who i am, write me off as a troll

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Yeah, i fail to socialize much so I have poor skills I suppose. Some think its competitive sport I guess.

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Yep I feel like it’s a competitive sport! Sometimes anyhow!
How to stop that feeling??

I am good enough I always tell myself but gotta learn to believe it…then it’s fine.

I do believe it but some times u just don’t feel it. Enough

I don know. Theres alot of competitiveness in society over everything.

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I wish there was more Co operation than competition in society.

But, I think it’s difficult with the amount of trust between people of the world.

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Having said that I do see Co operation in the world and that is nice

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I think you’re great mrhappy.

I know what you mean about confusing yourself.

I do that too, in particular when nervous!!

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Yeah, cooperation may be better, but i guess it was agreed some cooperation, some competition.

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I do not feel confused with my social skills but I agree with @zwolfgang : my emotions, my feelings, my anxiety are connected to my way of interacting with others.
Actually, i’m a hypersensitive guy. :confused:
This can be as positive as it is negative.

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Yea that is life we gotta learn to adapt to it I guess

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Thanks mae, you’re nice too :slight_smile:

i worry what others think a lot of the time, i am a people pleaser but i think most of the time i am just trying to please gd

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Yeah, it takes alot to switch all the time. I never could do it much. Its all pretty confusing.

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Does it make you feel truly happy having that as your motivation, the religious aspect?

Yep it’s very confusing the balance of competition and Co operation but I think it’s possible… It better be cos I want to be balanced.

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it helps me a lot to think that way, it helps me make sense of things more, when i was unwell i thought i had all the answers but i started questioning myself and looking for answers,

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