I think I’m boring. How do I fix this?

Most people find me boring, at least that’s how I perceive it. How can I be more fun to be around?

Most people don’t need to change their personalities to be accepted. Rather they find people who appreciate and accept them for who they already are.

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Right on @sweetpotatocasserole .:slightly_smiling_face:

Better find people who will appreciate you for who you are or to be by yourself and hope such a people will find you.

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I’m just afraid that will never happen to me. I’m not funny, interested in nerdy things others would find boring, etc. I barely have any friends because I like discussing science and art.

Then you should hang out with people who like science and art, too. Similar interests always attracts friendships.

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I don’t have friends and it has nothing to do with hobbies.

I have a wo
A who is obsessed with me and incites hate on me and got whole neighbourhoods in area excluding and bad vibe bullying me.

So I tried riding with women but didn’t feel comfortable or right .

There’s no women who love me as friend.
They are horrible to me.

No hobbies would help.

It’s who you are as a spirit and being more than your hobby maybe.

But maybe in your case you could join online groups who are interested in these topics.

It sucks not having friends but it’s better than having people pretend to be your friend while treating you badly.

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You have friends here though. I enjoy your posts and love how dedicated you are to animals, especially horses. Keep being yourself. You are also very kind and supportive on this form. Most people who judge do that because they don’t actually understand or know you. So don’t let their ignorance make you upset. Have confidence in yourself. Be you!!! @SacredNeigh7

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One way is to exaggerate facial movements. Raise your eyebrows, flare your nostrils, perch your lips type deal. I did it once at a bakery and a group of women were taking notice (in a weird but cool way)

Apologies for any td people out there- not making light of it

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If you wanna be fun have fun

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Thank you @sweetpotatocasserole :slightly_smiling_face::pray:t4::two_hearts:
Appreciate it!

Nice to have you back on the forum posting again.:slightly_smiling_face:

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Bro… it’s gotta be the people you try to hang with. Many people find science and are interesting.

I’m starting to see that being myself makes everything better … I don’t really want friends who only like me for my acting

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