I’ll be 52 in Sept and after a divorce in America in 2000 I have not been able to find a woman and this makes me to think I am too old already. I have not done any online dating or any dating, and many people have already their children and families.
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You should be able to find a woman. Have you been looking?
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I have not been looking, but I live in a small city and there may just not be many possibilities for finding a woman.
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If you don’t look, you won’t find.
The ideal woman isn’t going to come barging in out of the blue, you need to put forth effort.
There’s a benefit in having kids at a late age for men, they have longer telomere lengths, which means they live longer!
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I think if you put forth the effort you will find one. Are there neighboring cities nearby? A lot of people are finding mates these days on web sites. They do compatibility tests and their marriages are said to last longer than those who meet traditionally.
I heard this on the radio the other day. Perhaps you should try one of these services.
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I’m 49 and have accepted that I’ll be alone forever and ever and ever. But I’m ok with that. I’ve had relationships and they obviously never worked out.
The grass is always greener on the other side.
There’s no reason why you couldn’t be happier single.
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My mom met her fiancé when she was 48 and he was 53. It’s never too late!
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I’m 35 and have never gotten close to marriage. I still think it could happen but I don’t want to date a woman who has kids and an ex husband.
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Are you going to create a dating profile?
Lol, today I turn 28 and not having a partner or a stable job really sucks. My family wants me to get married and have kids and I want to make them happy… If there was no obligation in the world to have kids, I think I’d be happy being single for a while longer.
I think you owe it to yourself to try online dating. I’m gonna make a profile in a few months after I move to California. Sure I don’t make a ton of money but not everyone’s looking for that.
It might be tough to put yourself out there initially, and not everyone you message will message you back. If you can put up with that I’m sure there’s at least a few people out there who would be a good match. That’s what I’m hoping for for myself.
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I think it’s utter bullsh*t people thinking they’re forever alone. Even disabled paraplegics can find someone! The only difference is they try to, and never stop trying to. Also, they have skills to bring to the table. Something salable, usually.
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I’m not looking.
I was married and divorced.
I don’t need the drama.
Relationships take a lot of work.
Your not to old 
There are people dating at nursing homes /aged care homes…
Online dating could be a go for you to try.
I hope to join a online dating site next year.
There is no point in me joining a site before my mum comes to visit because she is staying a few months and I can’t date while she is here.
I rather date someone who does not have children.as it could be awkward with children even adult ones.
If the person is great and the children are tolerable I might date someone with children.
I want my future partner to be a vegan or willing to become one and I have to tell them all my sicknesses and see if they are still interested after that 
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Be careful of online scammers.
I had one and so did my x boyfriend.
I actually sent my x boyfriend money for petrol and he rode his bike interstate to meet me for our first date but when I gave him that money I knew he could have taken it and kept it and never come to see me.i knew that and I took that risk.
One guy said he was stuck in a airport with a rare diamond and that I had to send him money.i said no.
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Good point … 
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Your never too old. I’m not actively looking as my current lifestyle is agreeable and not many ladies want to date a guy who is on a pension and lives at home with his dad. Saying that. You never know your luck in the big city. If I was lonely I’d try online dating for sure. Most folk I know these days meet up through th internet. It’s just how it is these days.
I think women are pushed into relationships and marriages and pretty much told to have children by their loved ones, even though some dont want them.
Men are genuinely looking for relationships for love and affection. Not to say women arent as well, but it seems nowadays more men are looking for love than women 
I know it must hurt you to not have partner and children. I’m 29 and it hurts me. But everyone has there own timing. You said that you haven’t looked. Maybe start putting effort in meeting new women. Being more deliberate: going to supermarkets, bookstores, coffee shops, etc.
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My great uncle married a second time at 90.
I believe it’s never too late.
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I really hope I can pull off what my father did and find a wife who is about 15 years younger. Sorry to sound shallow but that’s the age I like.