You can either ignore him (is there a ways to delete the add on Snapchat) or tell him you are not looking for short-term relationship.
The problem is I like him not for the sex but for him but sex is the only way I can get him to like me it sucks I feel ewwww
did he say that or is that just how you feel? Maybe he would want more. sometimes our minds donât speak truth and we think one way and it is different.
He said he was feeling tempted by casual. And he wants kids I donât.
well, if it is someone you like, maybe just message him what you really think and feel. It is better to do it in writing than in person so we can say everything we want. Then see what he does. tell him you are not ready for the sex or casual relationship. And right now you donât see kids as part of your future.
I messaged him he said he added me because he thought I added him. Then he told me he forgot to block me on whatâs app when he clearly blocked me. Weâre both playing these weird games
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I donât see you as playing a game with him⌠He does seem maybe he is trying to mess with your mind a little. Iâd write it off and move on⌠donât even worry about him anymore.
Ish, if a guy says he only wants casual, believe him. Approximately nobody ever has changed their mind about that with the same person. If you want casual sex, thatâs awesome. Use a condom. Enjoy yourself. Try different positions so you can figure out what you like and what you donât.
If you really want an honest, monogomous relationship, stay away from the ones who are looking for casual. They wonât suddenly want a relationship if you have enough sex with them. Thatâs just not how human brains work. It is your responsibility to block and ignore them. You canât ask them to do it for you. Itâs not fair to make someone else responsible for your mental health.
And seriously, vibrators are a good idea. I can reccomend a few if youâre interested.
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