I am starting to embrace my weirdness , it's ok to be weird 😛

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I don’t know why , for all these years, I held back. When I set foot into this dating world I didn’t know what to expect, actually i thought it would be hard most guys would run a mile after looking at me, but the 5 i met that didn’t happen granted they were all idiots who wanted casual flings (but hey at one point I did too doesn’t make em bad) :stuck_out_tongue:

in a weird way its been a confidence boost. i am gutted about the last one he seemed so genuine. :frowning: but i can’t change my mind about kids… even though I’m technically not thinking right now… :frowning:

So back to the topic, the guys seemed to like that i’m weird so i guess thats a good thing :slight_smile:

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Just gotta be yourself ish.

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everyone one is weird in their own way. normal is just a setting on the dryer.

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Weird is beautiful. "Normal is really effin weird, atleast to me.

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I agree. Having back in the day hung around those who also embraced their own uniqueness, whether that lasted or even extended to me in the end, it was what is was, you could be bad self you know? Always.

Now? I don’t know, I smoke a pipe, have slightly weird hair and would be considering becoming an absolute shut-in if it wouldn’t take an endless supply of red wine to keep content in that. Which I could manage if I had the assets. But no, I am the blamed, the blind scapegoat, the utterly obliterated, the utterly clueless who once knew oh so much.

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We’re all unique and special on our own way. The sz diagnosis is just a small part of who we r. Good luck with your weirdness. Or uniqueness as I like to call it. It sounds to me like your very much in touch with yourself.

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We aren’t weird; we’re highly original.

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Frankly @anon80629714 fail to see much weirdness from you. Maybe it doesn’t portray over the net as doesn’t seem to.

A favorite quote from a friend is “The illness doesn’t define me it’s just a part of who I am.”

Moral of the story don’t embrace the weirdness start loving you for being you ie learn to love yourself. :sunglasses:

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Being weird isn’t a problem unless your with someone who don’t, can’t, or won’t appreciate it.
Happiness is being with someone who allows you to be you.

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I like your weirdness, Ish. You are interesting and fun and complex.

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What happened with the guy that has you feeling gutted?

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He texted me this morning said he forgot to give me change from our second round of drinks I paid for wanted to transfer it to my bank account lol. Then we talked for a bit and we decided it wasn’t going to work so that’s the end of that. Shame.

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I really liked him and casual was not what I wanted

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im amused by my own weirdness… alittle bit anyway…I can look back and be amused of some of the things ive done

other than that I wouldn’t be in to dating…I lack the confidence and also I don’t have that desire no monre. im 40 now

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I have a set of terms for people

Basic: boring and plain, can find many more of the same, swipe left

Acidic: the opposite

you know, since it’s all about chemistry :laughing:

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Yess embrace all of it. Bc you may think it’s weird but your partner may think it’s adorable and what he’s been wanting and missing all of his life.

You never know what traits you have that others find extremely pleasant and will most likely remember you (in a good way) for. @anon80629714

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There can be some benefits to “seeming normal”. If you aren’t though, the benefits aren’t worth your time. Be weird, and be around people who enjoy your weirdness and honesty.

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