I got yelled at for supposedly not watering the plants but I did I just didn’t use the sprinkler because its a waste of water if it was their daughter who had done they wouldn’t have complained.
but who knows they are saying they are going to crack down on their 10 year old. not give in to everything she wants. too late for that, she already has three dogs, a cat and a bird. but kay says you might as well say the bird and cat are ours.
It is not nice how they are treating someone who is helping them… Would it be possible to get a place of your own or one with your partner or even move to a another town? 
they are holding her van and driving lessons hostage until she can pay for gas. even though I gave them 705 dollars today they cant seem to make time for her to drive. we are planning on moving to another town as soon as we save money up and she gets her license. the same company that runs the one where we live now owns another one in that town and its a lot bigger and better hours.
I’m guessing they need your money so maybe consider using that as leverage. Stop paying them until you all sit down and get an agreement in place that suits both your in-laws (the landlords) and you and Kay (the renters). If you’re paying rent, you have certain rights. Unfortunately, what’s complicating things and blurring boundaries is that your landlords are also your relatives.
Would she be able to take the drivers test without lessons? In some states, it is not necessary to take driver’s education after a certain age. I took the driver’s test without any driving lessons and the dmv allows multiple tries to pass the test if someone fails. Or perhaps you guys can use public transportation in the new town.
@Moonbeam, I talked to my mother in law about everything and she said she understands that we are all stressed especially with an extra 6 people moving in plus three animals. the good news is we got permission from my mother in law that if the cats go after luvie or kaisei that we can squirt them with a water bottle and if they can’t be trusted then to put them in the bathroom when we are not here. I know its mean but kaisei and luvie were here first and they need their safety guaranteed.
@User50 in Indiana you have to log how many hours you have had to practice and she could lie but she isn’t that good of a driver yet to take the test.