3 years, worst 2 and half years of my life. we had nothing in common. and it pacified me.
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I have been married for 27 years. Been together for over 30.
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Married for eight years so far
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22 years. Just under 19 married. Ended with wifeās death in 2005. She had vascular dementia, but died due to physical problems .
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Yes it goes by so quick its so scaryā¦
I have had 3 year relationships but they were bad and in my drinking days, normally I donāt last more than 3 month, that why I gave up dating.
Had a online gf for many years, but she went off meds and started drinking and was to much to handle so had to end that
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20 years together and continue.10 years married.divorce at end of 2018.together since then.i think we have lifelong relationship with my wife.i would be dead long time ago if she weren t with me.because young unmedicated sick me were too much suicidal.
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21/2 years approximately.
It was the best time of my life.
He and the girls (dogs) are my family.
I left to become a vegan because he doesnāt like vegans and I feel strongly for animals and environment and we were killing mice on glue traps which Iām not ok with and I was not ok with keepycrickets in containers to feed to scorpion.
He is a hunter too.
Also to give my horse a better paddock.
I left a happy home for animals really and my morals and beliefs.
I regret leaving.
I should have forsed him to accept me as a vegan and asked him to stop glue traps and keeping crickets etc.
I miss him and the girls so much.
This is my x in SA.
He said he wonāt take me back.
He treated me with patience and respect.
Other men disrespected me.
I dated a guy after him that I love but no where near as much as my other x.
He was the best sex and pretty funny but he didnāt respect me and had a bad temper.
I might join a dating site but I still want to move back with my x in SA and his dogs.
I love him as my favourite man so dating others might be shallow and what if I date others and never love any one close to as much I love him.
Most of my relationships were a couple or few months .
I want to marry my x in SA if he stops killing mice on glue traps and stops keeping crickets and accepts me as vegan but he said several times he doesnāt want me back so maybe I will join dating site although he is the one I want.
I would look at men who care for animals and environment I think n maybe woman too.
10 years with my ex wife.
7 years married.
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Never had.
Getting baby crazy, tbh.
1 yearā¦ wish it never happened
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9 months. I moved in with her around month 4, big mistake.
2 years, Iāve had more fu*k buddies than relationships.
11 years and one for 10 years
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17 years of a bad deal. But, I got a great daughter out of it and it led me to meeting my current husband whom I love very much and who treats me very well
2 years wish I was never with them
14 years so far
Married him in 2010
I canāt stand people who use that threat to control or manipulate others. Itās so low. It spits in the face of people with genuine suicide concerns who never try to manipulate others with it.
To answer the original question of the thread, my longest relationship was about 6 months. I shoot above my league and then have a hard time holding on. I havenāt tried dating since becoming sick 6 years ago though.
4 years serious. Ten year plus that still in some sort of relationship. Modern life makes things so much more able than the things should beā¦Learn some things from that.