One time I made a play for this girl, and she rejected me roundly. I got to watching her a little later, and I was so glad she rejected me! She would have driven me totally bat ■■■■ crazy! Has something like that ever happened to you?
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nah, i usually just reject my self
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This has happened a lot and im always glad nothing happened. There was usually something i would overlook about them in my desperate infatuation.
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In hindsight im very glad this alcoholic who was twice my age and had emotional problems rejected me, as obsessed with him as i was
That’s exactly what I’m talking about. You would have been so miserable with him.
There was one woman who was pretty attractive(although I can’t remember her face). I worked up the courage to ask her out. She said she had a boyfriend so I stopped. I found out later that she posted online conversations with her on the web and was bad mouthing me. She lied about the boyfriend too. I was shocked enough about this that I avoided her after that. On social media I know that she was a party girl with children. I also got the general feel after the love haze(what I’m calling the infatuation period where you see nothing wrong about that person) left that I became glad she didn’t go out with me. Seemed like a poisonous person.
She definitely seems toxic to me.
I’ve always rejected them and I’ve never asked anyone out.
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I was seriously r3jected one time…!!! Nightmare to me…!!!
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Really glad my fiancé broke up with me. It sucked and I was miserable but holy moly he was a twerp.
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Yeah she was a real (word I cannot say). She would’ve been the worst thing ever to happen to me. Well she still was one of the worst. The problem I didn’t realize this till years later. Too blinded by my self. And had too much pride to let her go so easily. But She was a bad person!!!
There was one woman that broke up with me and I just feel grateful everyday for the fact that she did. It’s one thing to have schizophrenia but something else to be hooked up with someone that messes with your head.
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Yeah it’s like this girl wanted me to get schizophrenia. She drove me crazy, played games, encouraged me to do large amounts of drugs and messed with me for years after with messages on social media directed towards me. She was a terrible terrible person. Her big problem she was soooo self centered and entitled she felt the world owed her and she had no empathy or compassion rooting from her lacking of understanding of the human condition. She was awful. Gosh. I feel bad for anyone who crosses paths with her. She was like a smarter version of a 12-13 year old when I knew her I doubt she’s matured much at all since I knew her either. Meeting her was like the plan of the devil.
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I’d be glad to get rejected from a beautiful women who is high maintenance because I couldn’t afford to keep her.
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Sounds like my sister… 
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She was similar to my sister in A LOT of ways actually. My sister has since matured though. With my insights I’ve discovered has come more insight for my sister when I introduce concepts and lead by example to her. My sister and I are on similar planes of maturity. I am more understanding than my sister though, all this despite she is 4 years older than me. In a way I am farther along in life than her. In many other ways she is a good amount ahead but my sister has her issues too!! She didn’t understand the human condition at all till I introduced and worded my understanding of it to her.
Really?? How old was she when she matured? 
Probably 27 till now. She’s 31. I think doing yoga helped her a lot. She was very abusive when I was sick. I think me getting better, I’ve become very humane and she learned from me a bit.
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Ouch, I’ll have to wait a decade then… 
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Yes. She had went behind my back and ■■■■■■ another dude. I knew it was going to happen. So i decided to give her a chance but she instead just wanted to be friends. No regrets, here!!
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