Have you ever been called gay?

I have been called gay may times

Truth is I am not gay

so there view means noting 2 me

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Im bisexual. Thats all I needed to reveal on here.

I’ve been known to be a little gay so that would be just fine

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No one is 100% straight.

(I don’t think)

I’ve been called gay,

It doesn’t bother me.

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It’s also worth mentioning that I’ve mostly been called gay by dudes I rejected.

That seemed to happen only when I lived in the south though.

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Yeah been called a few words. Actually im BI - but mostly had a relationship with women. Sorry but the few men ive been with, tend to flaunt it on the “camp” side - and that puts me off. They have been “look at me im Gay” types.

At least the lesbians round here are more discrete about it. I dont agree with shoving your sexuality down someones gob.

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i’ve been called gay. It upset me as a child, because I wasn’t ready for people to know and I was in hardcore denial. Now it doesn’t bother me.

People who use gay as an insult really don’t understand how great being gay is.

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Me and a companion at secondary school used to hold hands sometimes

some guys in my class asked me if I was gay

but i think maybe they were just teasing, idk

since that was a time that it was not rare for handholding between female friends

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Ya throughout life because I never had time for a girlfriend…

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fu.ck the begrugers

Let them eat cake

I mean offer them cake

I think I got called gay in the army once, but I don’t like men in that way at all.

I called another person gay…like “are you gay or what?” because he was putting his hand on me feeling me out. He got mad, but I had to say something quick to make him understand that his attention was not welcome. I’m sure there are better things to say, but I didn’t have a lot of time to think.

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Before doing that, you should probably be aware that “cake” has another meaning, so offering them cake would probably not convince them you aren’t gay.

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Ok offer them love and forgiverness

That is what I do

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My friend was called names and treated like he was gay just for wearing colorful clothes. He has a girlfriend now and is happy etc. but its messed up how people treat someone for their sexuality…a person is a person and stereotypes shouldn’t define them.

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in 2010 I was hearing voices my brother voice called me gay

Yeah I’ve been called gay lots of times! :rainbow:

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When I was young, kids used the gay word as an insult to bully ppl. But I didnt care about what they said.

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All the time. I think they have problems with their own sexual orientation. I know what I am. They can go â– â– â– â–  themselves.

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I don’t mind gay people at all, one of my besties is lesbian, but you got to have manners. I mean even if it was a girl that feeled me up the attraction might not be mutual. Although that hasn’t been a big problem in my life. jk :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

Yeah, my friend had a baby with her wife where she got sperm donation. I guess there’s not many other ways to do it…I don’t see anything wrong in that. But there’s nothing wrong in discussing ethics either as far as I’m concerned.

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I remember one time I was in highschool and we were standing on the lawn outside the building during a firealarm and a guy who wore tight pants was standing in front of me and his ass was almost touching my groin, and when I looked down some guys laughed and called me gay. That’s one time I remember.

Then later on I was in university and a guy I knew was criticizing people who use gay as a way of criticizing, such as saying the lecture by so and so was gay. He talked for a while about it but basically he was saying that he couldn’t see why so many things are compared with two men expressing their love for each other. I think I said something to him that it is being used as an analogy, the only similarity being that the user finds both things disagreeable.

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