Even though my local hospital is 15 mins by drive , the mental health team is outside my borough. So I’ll never be His patient officially long term (id have to go there to A&E and then be seen for a few mins and transferred to my borough hospital. but it’s awkward. I feel I can’t go A&E anymore.
He told me he worked there in an inpatient ward. Started asking for pics. I’ve been stupid. He said his fantasy was to date a patient but he can’t do that. I’m technically not his patient though.
Then cos I live local he saw me on the bus but we didn’t talk. I said was that you? He said i looked homely. Meaning ugly. But he continued to talk to me and wanted some casual deal. Even though I’m fat and ugly.
Ish he sounds like a weirdo.
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I live local to the hospital where he works. Not near him. As I tried to “connect” with him. He said he has his own problems to deal with he doesn’t want to know about my issues.
This was many many months back. But I don’t want to go to that hospital.
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WTF?! Is this a joke. Ignore, block delete and report!
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Really don’t blame you! Have they come yet?
No. I have done really stupid things. In someways I feel like the weirdo and creep and it’s disgusting what I did.
No. I didn’t expect crisis team to come. Just asking for advice.
why do you keep blaming yourself?! did he really tell, you are fat and ugly?!
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Sounds like he crossed your boundaries, not the other way around?!
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Yes. Called me homely. And mentioned I needed to walk and could do with the exercise as I was overweight. But he wanted to do a favour by doing it with me. 
I blame myself. Could have got into really dangerous situations. Can you see why I don’t want to go on dating sites?
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Okay, so you encouraged it, even just a little bit. I see.
How are you feeling now, @anon80629714?
Possibly. I didn’t think. I encourage them and freak out. Like wtf am I doing ? but he knew I was ill. He knew I have a mi.
Better I guess. Just glad my episode wasn’t on a dating site. It could have been really bad.
Us guys need to act like gentlemen anyway, @anon80629714! I know I really liked a girl my 2nd time in the hospital and I became obsessed with her. She did encourage it somewhat, but especially given the circumstances, I had no right! That’s not what a psych ward is for really!
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You must be feeling better, I hope?!
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Do you know for sure that he actually works at the hospital?
He sounds highly unprofessional…
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