Feeling paranoid using my moms card

Well, they may call to verify information if the information you gave them is different from what they have on file. But you did nothing illegal and you have nothing to hide. I’m sure people do it all the time and they know it.

I think your just feeling guilt because your using her money instead of yours…

Stop panicking about it! Its not liked you nicked it!

You had permission from the cardholder.

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okay sorry, i dont know if they monitor transactions.

Promise you, your fine mate lol. It would only get flagged if someone raised a concern.

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okay thanks, ill stop worrying now.

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No problem - I get where your coming from, the paranoid side of Sz is an arsehole aint it! :slight_smile:

Yea i have a severe case of it. I believe the fbi is after me still, i cant go out to public place feel like people are watching me.

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so all delusion in mind right? no letters or phone calls

Your mom might get a bill sent though… unless she argues to the bank that it wasn’t her that used it, then you will be fine

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I don’t know if this relates to what’s happening to you. I have a court case on a guardianship matter and there is a test for capacity so they don’t become my guardians but I keep thinking it has to do with them sending me to North Korea and deciding capacity to be a dictator. It’s like it’s related but not quite as everyone keeps telling me here. But I get paranoid anyway even though one doesn’t have much to do with the other. I just think it does. And then there’s my boyfriend who makes me paranoid. I think he’s the devil but that isn’t likely true either. But I keep thinking it is.

Alright thanks. really appreciate it.

do banks monitor transaction?

They do catch suspicious spending… so I suppose they do at some level…

But 25dollars isn’t enough to raise a flag I don’t think

You and your mom have nothing to worry about, the only thing to keep in mind that in Canada if you let someone else use you debit card (family included) it voids some of the protections. So as long as you mom does not tell anyone your safe/

If someone was to make fraud charges on the card and you mom said just me and my daughter use it, the bank would not cover the fraud charges. So make sure she knows not to tell

I have a hard time taking walks near my house because of paranoia.

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