family friend said he thinks my brother has been whispering in my parents’s ears and he thinks that my brother convinced everyone to block me and not talk to me. really makes me question whither or not my parents love me. i tried to call several times and they blocked my number which is okay i guess. maybe they just don’t love me anymore. i feel abandoned i have my partner and my friends both in real live and on here. but i think my parents just want to hurt me into submission
Maybe that’s a better way to look at it. From their misguided view they are trying to help you by forcing you to come back to them. It’s misguided and selfish, but they might be trying to get you to come back to them.
Do they have any other reasons to disapprove of your relationship with your partner?
my partner dropped out of high school in the 11th grade to take care of her biological mother’s sons. so she had a hard time finding a job. i supported her with my ssi for a few years. she had jobs but transportation was always an issue since we didn’t have a vehicle. about two years ago she got her GED after trying for years and then got a job as a CNA, then a GA then finally a QMA. they think she is lazy and does nothing to care for me. even though i remember through out my childhood my parents not having jobs and my brother and i going without food while they had cigs, weed and beer. my dad hasn’t worked in 10 years and keeps getting denied social security so my mom doesn’t make him do anything.
Ah. I see. Well ■■■■ em. I know they are your parents but they sound like a bad influence on you. Don’t play their games. Maybe one day if they want to have a cordial relationship at arms length you can do so. You are really lucky to have a good partner.
Everyone in your life seems to be trying to manipulate you for their own purposes. Just live the way you feel is right for you.