That you fall in love with someone who reminds you of your parent? My major crushes were for girls who reminded me of my mom.
I always tried to find someone who was nothing like either parent
I always looked for partners that were nothing like my parents, but not consciously thinking that. I just was interested in people who happened to be nothing like my parents.
No. I think it must be extremely rare anyone reminds me of my parents anyway.
There are girls that I have found attractive, and upon subsequent consideration I realized that they resembled my mother. I remember this English professor who said a psychiatrist had once told him, “If you make your wife your mother that is the end of all marriage.”