Even just a few of them? Some or most? Just curious.
Because of my illness and stuff I said or did over the years, I’m basically the scapegoat of the family, the loser on what my dad calls “welfare”. My dad refuses to lend me a dime. My sister and her husband have lived with my dad for about 15 years and basically my sister has a full expense account. My brother borrows $200,000-$3000 every time he moves. He pays back the last loan, then takes out a new one when he finds a new arrangement. It’s weird, my siblings know about it, but they don’t seem to care as long as they’re doing okay with my father. But yeah, they are weird when I’m around. They tolerate me, my sis and bro are nice enough, but my dad is almost always hostile.
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I’m so sorry @eighteyedspy23.
When I was a witch and an actively bisexual woman, I was a scapegoat of my family for years. But, I was still accepted, somewhat. My family just didn’t approve of my religion or my lifestyle. But, they still loved me.
Now that I am a celibate Christian they totally accept me and love me completely and I am no longer a scapegoat of the family. They look up to me even. My sza status isn’t even taken into consideration. Mainly because they don’t believe it affects me that much. And they don’t look down on me for my jobless status either. I got a wonderful family.
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That’s okay, it’s probably not anything I can ever change, but I’m still doing well on my own. Maybe things will get better. Glad you are getting along with your family now.
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Yes, ever since my dad died things have been great with my family. He was the poison in the family really.
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Yes, but in a good way. They allow for my differences and my position in life and they accept it and adjust accordingly. In a few ways they could tear me apart verbally if they wanted to but they are not mean by nature but I have to put out the effort and at least try to do my part in socializing.
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