I think this is a very responsible parenting decision. And if they dont like the pill, there are different brands, there is the implant, shots, minipill, IUD, etc. They have plenty of options and you are showing them you trust them to make responsible decisions on their own. Very important for teenagers.
I’ve always trusted my girls and given them a long leash. They love that about me. I’ve never micromanaged their affairs…but told them the door to my office is always open if they need to talk about anything…to not be shy. After all, I was a teenager once as well.
Thats how I am with Starlet. I told him I will trust him to make decisions and I only ask that he talks with me about things. And he does. He shares a lot of his thoughts and feelings and worries. I think it is more important for a kid to know they can talk openly about concerns than it is for them to never make mistakes.
Well just to show the other side. im not against birth control or that stuff. But kissing a prince is different from KISSING the prince. You can get to know people really well through kissing, without actually KISSING. I don’t want girls thinking that they need to show the goods all the time, to be liked by a guy or dip a toe into the dating world. you know it’s a tricky part of being a parent to teenagers. kudos to you for being a good dad. I believe there aren’t enough of those in our world today.