Can a mod message me

I need to understand whh my thread was closed but no one elses with the exact samr topic is.

You can message them yourself.

I did but they didnt give me a reason beyond it was off topic. Which is confusing for me given how many topics here are off topic.

And if you search the exact heading i used youll find many many many other topics about it that werent shut down. So i really dont understand and i just want to know the rules so i can follow them.

You were given an explanation and you began badgering. We can only repeat the same explanation so many times.