Been married 13 years today

13 years ago I got married.

It was a strange time in my life and my family wasn’t completely sold on my now husband.

Our wedding being a complete shitshow didn’t help matters.

I didn’t have a lot of fun and really just did the wedding stuff because my mom and now husband were pushy about it.

But it makes for a good story.

Sort of.

I’m still a little sour grapes about it.

Anyway,

It’s been an action packed 13 years.

We’ve managed to get along and love each other though a lot.

I feel pretty proud.

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Congratulations to you and your husband @CharlesFoster

13 years is a long time

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Congratulations :tada: !

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Congratulations.

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Congratulations and happy 13 years!!

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Well done on 13 years together.

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Congratulations! 13 uears is a real accomplishment

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Congrats on 13 years. That’s awesome

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Congratulations!

I’m happy for you that you are happily married 13 years.:partying_face::two_hearts:

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Congratulations! :confetti_ball:

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Happy Anniversary!

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Congrats on 13 years!

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Congrats on 13 years! My gf and i want to get married but im like you, dont really like the idea of a wedding with friends and family. So much anxiety! Weve been together nearly 4 years now so its becoming about time haha.
Any tips for a wedding with a sz groom?

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I would keep it to a small ceremony or elope.

If I could go back in time, that’s what I’d do.

And also not serve fee booze.

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Yeah, that’s what we’ve been thinking. Thanks!

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@Ooorgle got married recently and had a ceremony I believe.

He was an actual groom.

We’ll tag him and see if he has any advice.

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Congrats on 13 years and Happy Anniversary!

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oh congratulations !! I’ve been with my wife a total of nine years but only working on our second anniversary in september. happy anniversary !!

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Happy anniversary :ribbon:

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Congratulations on 13 years! @CharlesFoster

@Ozzyskits, I did a full service. About 65 people. Open bar with beer and wine only.

Mine was good, it was an estate we rented out. All they do is weddings. We went with a lot of preferred vendor list, so that helps.

Made our vows in front of family and friends, and then had an awesome honeymoon. It was a blur and whirlwind.but an awesome time.

I worked with my psyche and upped my meds a bit. Added a PRN for anxiety. Gabapentin.

It was stressful, but worth it.

I like to think we had a good wedding.

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