I feel suddenly like I want a more put together look
I’m impulsive and don’t have any good style
I have lots of nice stuff but it is all silly together
Never really have dressed normally
Think I’m old enough to know what I’m doing by now
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There was this lady at recovery college I really admired her eccentric clothing style. She doesn’t seem to mind that she is walking around like that. I really admired her attitude to that.
I personally think it is OK to just wear what you feel like wearing.
I like going in shops when I have money and doing just that 
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Had she also been ill?
Yea she has something like borderline or something
My dress sense is a bit eccentric as well. I like to dress differently.
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That’s cool,
I tend to walk around in my pj’s and slippers atm lol.
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Even on the street?
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Yes. My pj’s are mainly baggy clothes, sometimes leggings. So they don’t really look like typical PJs
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That’s handy. When I first got out of psychosis. I used to sleep in my clothes a lot. I had no energy to take them off.
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Yea I understand, that. I was the same.
Nowadays I don’t because, a, its more laundry electricity. B, it means I have to do laundry more often,
I think I just got better and stopped doing it.
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That’s really good, you must feel better for it.
Yeah definitely. I always take my clothes off at night now.
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I’m more about having personal style over following fashion.
With fashion the rules are so dumb and constantly changing.
For example a lot of male fashionistas have been saying for years not to wear cargo pants, but now they’re back in fashion.
So I say screw fashion and do what you want.
@anon83141956 , That lady sounds super cool! I admire people like that as well. 
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I’m lucky if my shirt matches my shorts.
Tbh I don’t care what people think about my dressing style. I wear whatever is comfortable and convenient.
My ex friend was always being a dick to me bc I didn’t look good in a Beanie. Lol! Screw him.
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What’s an influencer? I watch famous people on youtube all day lol.
I follow Bath and Body Works influencers just for the drama.
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Yes I felt like this all my life, but now I’m suddenly almost 50 and I don’t want to be eccentric anymore
Going through a stage where it ■■■■■ the hell out of me
I just want to be stylish without being quirky
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I don’t really mean fashion so much as style
Something like a timeless look but consistently well presented
Of course it is ridiculously expensive if you can’t do it all in the same pair of shoes
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I think it’s unhealthy to follow influencers.
They all have unrealistic body types,
Made further unrealistic by editing photos.
Then, they can’t even afford the clothes they model.
My sister is a costume designer in NYC and she says their photos are up in all the high end stores so that retailers don’t sell to them.
They’re known to buy something, take a picture with it on, and return it in a couple days.
The whole thing is an impossible standards scam.
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