About sex workers

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Noone talks too much about their experiences with them.

I broke my own rules about this topic when I became sz (I was in Amsterdam at that point). I just couldn’t get laid, and tried doing it with a sex worker. My first experience was very good. Sometimes I just wanted to cuddle a little bit. Later on, experiences ranged from awful to decent. Never too fulfilling

This topic is usually a big taboo, but when I ask close friends about this, they come out and tell me usually 1 or 2 experiences with them.

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I’ve used them way in the past, in my active addiction. I would never see a streetwalker now and I’m too afraid of getting busted to go to a massage parlor.

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I used to do it a lot when I traveled at least to another city. Well, not a lot, but some

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What, you got busted a lot?

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No, lol.

To the massage thing

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I used to be addicted when i was on abilify, spent 20k$ on them in 8 years. Now I am not hypersexual anymore so I never went since 2019, I am afraid of STDs and also its not as satisfying as when I had a gf.

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I hear you man… thanks for sharing. I agree. That’s why my goal nowadays it’s to fix my life first.

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I was approached by a woman years ago downtown. She asked if I’d like to go to a hotel with her. I told her she couldn’t afford me. :joy:

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I lived above a crack addicted female for a while. It was disturbing and distracting. I wanted nothing to do with that. At one moment I felt compelled to distract her from her addictions to no avail. I don’t imply I touched her other than carried her to her bed after over dosing, which I had no idea what it looked like.

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I’m too nervous about seeing one in a country where it’s still illegal on paper

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In 2022 I was in Cuba in a resort and my room card stopped working it was night. I told the receptionist, they were 2 young girls in 20s, one told told me you will sleep with us tonight.

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That’s crazy!

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Honestly I was hesitant, maybe all they want is a Canadian visa as life in Cuba is very poor and the government is messed up, maybe they just wanted to escape their country or I was dumb enough to miss the opportunity lol

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One friend told me something similar, I don’t remember well. It had to do with a caribbean/ south american country, a party just for him and six or seven girls… go figure…

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Fun fact I am arab and in arab countries you have the right to have 4 wives at the same time. My gov papers have columns for 4 wives.

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Thanks for sharing… @Truemist8 . In a lot of countries in EU the job is regulated by the government, which I think it’s the best for all parties involved.

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I know a a couple of sex workers. Honestly never “employed” them tho. Scrounging gits - i was always giving food parcels too.

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I could have been a stripper instead of being poor. I chose to be poor. I refused to degrade myself like that. I went hungry even. This body is only for a husband

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@Loke that’s true. In your case it would have been degradating, because your morals and your values.

But there are countries where sex workers are a real job (they pay taxes, etc.). They are free to do it and choose to do so.

Imo prostitution is not immoral or coercive, if mutual consent is obtained.

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@Naarai I wonder what they told you about their lives…