at what age do you think general population focus more on mere physique, more on income, more on beeing stable in every way, more on status, etc.?
I personally have change between these along the way (never on income or stability tho)
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I think all those things are important at every age.
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I mean priorities. And there are more for sure!
I’m still not sure I know what you mean.
I think looks matter less when you get older.
But stability matters all the time.
Income is one of those things that’s different for everyone.
It depends on your preferences.
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looks matter less when you age there we go. Stability can be even unatractive at certain ages. Income matters more the older you are I think.
I’ve noticed as I have gotten older that it has become more about what I bring to the table than simply looks. I know I don’t have to be rich, but being a 31 year old student without much employment to speak of has been a major barrier to find a partner. I’m NOT blaming anyone for not being interested, but I have taken a break from dating so I can work on myself and focus solely on getting to where I want to be, or at least make major progress towards being where I want to be.
When I ask myself if I’d date me, the answer is no. I can’t blame others for not wanting to date me when I don’t want to date me. So, what do I have to do to get to the point where I’d date me? That’s my roadmap.
Sorry for my tangent on the thread topic. To answer your question, the difference between dating in my 20’s and early 30’s is that I noticed that looks still matter, but stability matters a lot more than it did.
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You hitted the nail on the spot here…
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I think looks are always important no matter the age.
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Im not very financially stable, but i think im quite mature and humurous. And my gf thinks im very good looking. So it depends on who you click well with at least. Also i dont think my gf has super high standards either haha. But we have an amazing connection none the less. Wouldnt trade her for anyone.
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Im 28 by the way. Shes 26.
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I’ll pass on the boat.
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I want to hang out with people I’m comfortable with and who I feel are genuine and real people who care .
My soul make and I take care of each other but we can’t be together physically as such.
If a man or woman is good looking and financially stable but I’m uncomfortable with them and feel they are not authentic then what’s the point.
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Beautiful people are fun to look at.
But tend to have self absorbed.
I think normal people look good too, and more interestsing.
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I stopped dating when i got disability.
Woman (sorry) tends to value status, money and stability higher than a good look.
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