5 Reasons Why I'm Not Ashamed of My Mental Health Condition

"I used to feel ashamed of my mental health condition, but now I refuse to let stigma and stereotypes dictate how I feel about myself. If you stigmatize me, that’s your ignorance, not my truth. Cool people, who are educated about mental illness and confident in their own mental health, don’t stigmatize. Stigma is dated, cruel and just plain wrong. Get educated about mental illness and come over to the cool side.

People with mental illnesses are not less-than. They are not damaged. They are not what you see on TV, the news or in movies. They are people; brothers, mothers, fathers, daughters… People. They are valuable, vibrant, brilliant members of your community. They are 1 in 4 people, not some freaky monster you’ve never met.

I have an awesome, successful, happy life… and a mental health condition. Big deal. Get over it. Just because I’m different, doesn’t mean I’m broken. In fact, I like being different.

Shame is toxic to the human spirit. I’ve let it go and replaced it with pride and acceptance. You can shame me all you want and have a big ol’ shame party, but it’s my choice whether I attend or not. (I’m always busy with better, more important things to do than sit with shame.) Shaming yourself and others are both exhausting, heavy, soul-energy-sucking things to do. I’ll be by the pool with joy and acceptance if you want to join us.

I hope you’ll also let shame go and move forward with pride. Here are 5 reasons why I’m not ashamed anymore: (…)"

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im proud of it …cause of it

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Cool. Once i told someone and she started behaving strangely towards me. Ive never been ashamed just sad but i accepted it and i have a great life :lion:

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Same thing here. It’s something to be proud of, our strenght to deal with this illnesses.

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This is my kind of stuff. I refuse to accept being of lesser status. I posted an update about my life a while ago, about how I have become proud, it was well received with like 25 likes. I plan on working under the world leader in stigma research, I will be applying the moment this semester’s grades are on my transcript. I have a gut feeling I will get in. My thesis in progress today is on a stigma intervention. I also have a 3.9.

This kind of integrity shown by this huffington post article is what I live for.

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That’s great, hope you do well on that endeavour. You should definitely be proud of yourself for accomplishing so much.
I remember that thread :smile:

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What a wonderful post I really dont mind people knowing that im ill, my life is worth it and life goes onwards and upwards

Good luck everyone
Kate xxx

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That’s great! I’m still a bit cautious to who I tell. My closest friends know, but I don’t tell my teachers for example. A teacher of mine said that people with illnesses shouldn’t take the degree and that left me insecure to tell… That’s her opinion and of course it’s bigotry but well… Someday I’ll be more open about it.