I’m on bumble too, and I’m like @daydreamer, I’m not the best catch lol but I try. Soooo many attractive girls on Bumble – a ton of them are outta my league
I don’t see why anyone can’t date anywhere if they are working if they really want it and are serious. Not being able to work is like an automatic no.
My gf left me shortly after my sz diagnosis because I couldn’t work and pay her half the rent to live with her. I didn’t tell her I have sz even when I stayed 4 months in mental hospital, she texted me if I was dead lol
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@daydreamer @anon49063606 Church is also a good place for some to find girls, lots of my church girls were on Bumble, some know me and my family so I skipped them lol
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haven’t seen that here, i would love to meet a girl like that but there are none here.
idk if i should try with this girl i dated before lockdown or try with this other girl i know,
I look pretty bad though, my hair is terrible. its just puffed up after a shower
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What are chances of getting girl if your on disability?
From my exprerience pretty low, try schizophrenia communities, you will have better chance.
Many girls I matched and spoke with either stopped talking by quitting convo or blocked me when I said I don’t work. They often ask what you are working.
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I think its not that bad if you were a girl but a guy on disability is just not very wanted sadly. I always dreamed living with a girl that works and I stay home all day while she works. Now I realize that’s a delusion because my gf left me because I didn’t work and stayed all weekends at her house. She said I am doing nothing with my life, another word is useless.
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Yes. I have limits.
Negative symptoms, always tired.
One of the things I can’t and don’t know how to talk online
It’s going to be very challenging for me
Did you try Abilify for your negative symptoms?
It improved mine by 30-40% when I was on 25mg but now I am on 2 then 5mg to prevent side effects. I take 3mg Risperdal with it. Not everyone gets side effects from Abilify though.
BTW when I said this, I wrote it assuming you’re a male. If you’re a female that obviously doesnt apply as the females get to decide who they engage with.
I wouldn’t go that far. I’m sure there are plenty of people in this arrangement, but it is uncommon. For some reason a lot of females don’t want a partner that doesn’t earn a near equal amount to what they earn.
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