My in laws sold the van. My partner knew they were going too but she wasn’t here to sign the title over so they made me do it. I told them I didn’t know what I was doing and I didn’t want to do it. Well the granddaughter of my in laws who bought the van said i miss spelled the name on the title. My mother in law said it’s fine but my father in law was pissed and said I had to get over all the mental ■■■■■■■■
man, I wish I could talk to them !! I would lay into them…you should just freak the hell out on them and let them do what they will…
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They sold your partner’s van without her written signature and consent? 
That’s not the legal way to do it…
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At this point, don’t you think it would be better if you and your partner found a cheap place to live and moved out?
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I would too.goddam it.
No kidding. A bill of sale for a vehicle without the signature of the title holder or holders is NOT legitimate and cannot be used to register or insure a vehicle in most North American jurisdictions.
I’d say that point was passed YEARS ago, but you should definitely listen to @anon9798425 on this.
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I’ve brought it up again to my partner keeps saying it will happen. My mother in law saw me crying when she came over yesterday to find out why I just ran out. She said sorry about her husband. I wanted to tell them they both need to listen and understand about mental illness.
My brother in law has depression, anxiety, diabetes and some other issues they understand his problems well enough.
Anyway they offered to pay half on a car for my partner if we continue to help catch up on the bills because of their car payment which they are going to get refinanced.
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Hey cbbrown, my mother never understood my illness, its not that she didn’t care but its bc she never had it that bad, its nothing personal but she just could not relate,
Couple o years ago she was feeling really bad and had to take diazepam for extreme anxiety, she said she was beginning to realise how much my illness affected me, i said to her ‘its not very nice’ and i wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy
But i also said ‘and thats just the anxiety’ she still cant relate to my sz but i’m thinking ‘do i really want her too?’ maybe its best she doesnt, its not something that i would want to think about too much anyway, wouldnt want her worrying about me all the time anyway,
Next course of action for me is to write my own personal memoirs on my journey so far, maybe then she can relate without having to worry… after all… it will just be a book, and hopefully she can still read it at that point.
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