Starlet hates water. He got put into foster care because of an incident involving swimming, so he refuses to do it.
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My apologies. I just remembered that he has an aversion to showering. How’s Starlet been otherwise?
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I love going to jacuzzis during winter all surrounded by snow. Then go to the sauna. I went to resorts who had these with my family.
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Things have been a bit touch and go here. He is starting to believe we mean it when we say he is stuck with us forever, and that brings a lot of both good and bad emotions up for him. He is afraid that we will start being abusive after we adopt him, he is afraid we will stop letting him see his birth mom now that we don’t have to, he is afraid that if he acts too horribly we will change our minds and abandon him. This all manifest as him being alternately clingy and pushing us away, which is honestly giving me emotional whiplash, but I try to focus on the feelings behind his behaviors rather than the behaviors themselves.
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That is a lot. I’ll be thinking of you guys. Peace be with you and your family.
-S
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Thanks. I think we will be okay. He just has a lot of anxieties.
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I will prob go my whole life without one, the thought of a stranger just touching me for a while just irks me bad lol. I’ll stick to ice packs and heating pads.
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I think I will start going eventually, I have problems with muscle rigidity, I would really benefit from a massage.
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