I’m pretty much useless if I dont have a job and I’m clearly not as capable as my cousins.
I wouldn’t tie my self worth to a job.
It’s shaky grounds.
There is more to life.
They make it pretty obvious every time they ask me if I’m working and how their daughter doesn’t have a problem getting jobs. I clearly do.
Once you live with your boyfriend, you’ll be free to ban these people out of your life.
That’s what I would do.
No need to spend time with people who put you down.
Edit: and so what if you’re disabled and struggle to work!?
Judges are everywhere you just gotta ignore it
Those that talk of others shortcomings are projecting their insecurities. Do not let this bother you. This is your life to live.
And then they ask why don’t we like to spend time with them
Believe me I intend to cut them out as soon as I am able to. I don’t need the extra negativity in my life I give that to myself as it is.
Is there any other kind of relative?
[ goes back to judging offspring ]
I hear you, let it be. Hopefully you can cut them out
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