I would spend most of it .
Buy good realestate and car and business or something for myself then buy something for some while I’m still alive .
Buy service of awesome lawyer who “ family “ can’t destroy or own etc but he (or she ?)put them in place and give me back who I am and what’s mine and that they never inherit from me in any way.
And strong make sure judge and jury arent owned by “them” either but make good things happen .
I would buy maybe a car or caravan or boat or give little cash to three x I can think of .
“Family “ would get nothing because of what they did to me etc .
I would perhaps buy something nice but little to the mothers of those x Because I liked ‘em .a nice necklace for few hundred bucks maybe or gift voucher to Bunnings for few hundred .
I would have a kick ass lawyer make sure my will does not give real estate or car or sny of my stuff to anyone in “ family @.
After way I treated etc they should have nothing of mine n no access .
My boyfriend could perhaps get my real estate and car in my will or i would do something clever if I could think of something.
Very important that those who abused me and destroyed me and stole who am and etc not access anything that’s me or mine .