We just end up running the new people off I notice it happens a lot that someone will post once and then just leave
I’m not sure that’s true. Why would welcoming them to the forum “run them off?” I think people leave for different reasons.
Why would a friendly welcome scare off new members?
You’re probably just being funny or ironic or sarcastic or something.
Yeah i noticed that
I dont know i just feel like they get unwanted attention and then think “nah this place is lame” or something like that
Yeah, maybe it’s too much pressure for them to be greeted by so many people.
But they must understand we’re just being friendly.
Yeah it was just a thought because i noticed a trend with them
Well, this is a forum, not an organization. However, many organizations seem to be structured like concentric circles, and I think I have often taken on step into the outer circle, taken a look around, and then stepped out.
Would you like to know why? In the case of some of those organizations, I don’t think you do.
Secrets exist, I believe.
(Edit) How is this relevant? A paranoid person might think this is actually an organization. (/Edit)
There is a technique known as “love bombing.”
Clint Barton: I’ve done the whole “mind control” thing. Not a fan. - Avengers: Age of Ultron
(Edit) https://www.pinterest.com/pin/346847608780706377/ (/edit)
You know, I never thought of it before, but you may be right. Just in case, the next new person I’m going to ignore completely. Wait, I almost always do. Nvm, carry on.
I think this morning, I may be ALL right. Wait, I, Clint, can use my left hand too.
Ok. In a sense, I’m all right this morning.
Now, back to the subject of not love bombing: I, for one, am not a professional psychologist. “Just watch what other people are doing, and have fun.” - Gatekeeper for the LARPers - “Hawkeye” series.
Maybe they’re just trolls that have gotten thru and then realized that this family can’t be trolled.
I don’t care if you think your family is DARPA, the PRC, or the Russian Mafia. I’m still enjoying this.
I’ve been on the forum a little bit and notice lots of new members make a big deal of coming on board,
Then disappear.
I don’t think it has anything to do with us.
They just get excited about the forum and quickly lose enthusiasm.
It’s cool.
I don’t like flash in the pan members anyway.
They also do that when they aren’t welcomed. There are a lot of people who join because they want to connect with others who are also ill and verify that what they are experiencing is real and not SZ/SZa. They flee once they realize that is prohibited here because of the site’s focus on recovery.
Drama much? If you don’t like how this community functions, join another. The whining is getting annoying.
I had a feeling you were
My guess is that many were paranoid. This is a public forum for sz after all.
My second guess at what’s going on there is anxiety, low self esteem.
Coorelation does not equal causation