I’m trying terribly hard to seem like I want to go but it’s not working and even mum seems to think I am not excited about going… my partner is getting that too. The reality is I don’t want to travel… the anxiety and symptoms are becoming hard to manage. But I don’t want him to feel he can’t go.
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It’s ok to not be wanting to go on this trip, and I totally get feeling anxious (i havent been on a trip in a long, long while).
It must be also hard on top of that to look like you want to go, so as not to disappoint your partner and make him feel like he can’t go.
Would it be ok if during the trip, you cut back on some of the activities but your partner can still go and do those? It might be helpful if it helps with some of the anxiety, and if he is ok with that.
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the activities are fine, its the getting there part that is making me super anxious… I will take my prometahizine so I am not so anxious.
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Next time you can go to Spain 
Less expensive and fewer flight hours.
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Spain is also reachable by land, via the euro tunnel.
Do you have anxiety if travelling by train, @Milly ?
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