the holiest day of the year is starting sundown tonight for one full day until sunset tomorrow. it is a very difficult day for me. I’ve had a very shallow life, no love in my life practically. my family is trying for me but it is just that – effort on their part.
judy
i hope you have a good day.
take care
I hope you have a blessed year everyone.
Happy New Year to everyone 
**Happy New Year!
Judy, does your family throw crumbs in to a river, or ocean on this night? I hope you do—throw all your cares away for Yom Kippur 
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thanks bridgecomet. my mom and I sometimes do that ritual but not every year. thanks for the well wishes.
happy new year to you too.
judy