What would you choose and why
From my experience,
I personally can’t choose both at the same time
This is infatuation…
This is freedom…
What is infatuation? I don’t get it
Infatuation is when you think you are in love but really you don’t know them, it can be very physical aswell. It can feel very intense
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So freedom is contradicting to infatuation cause you how no power over infatuation.
Yea. When I allow infatuation to consume me,
I feel like I am on strings over the guy who I am infatuated by.
Acting one way in hope they like me
There is no such things as true freedom. We have no control over certain feelings. But we can work on them and may you are right when you break those feelings you can be free. But then you lose the good parts of feelings.
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Freedom seems the better bargain. I’ll go with that
Freedom last longer, if you’re willing to work for it
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I think that wen u break free from it, you can find love in other ways.
Maybe not as intense but surely calm and healthy
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I guess freedom is close to independence.
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Independence for some is empowering.
Sometimes it is a challenge for some.
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To me personally, I find that infatuation is not real love. To me, it is a mess of confusion if I succumb to it
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I can’t speak for others, this is just for me and my circumstances in life
I infatuated once.
Edit. Flatulated.
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Yes, then you must choose freedom and independence.
Wait to find a connection that has a mutual infatuation.
Mutual infatuations are not impossible, both parties must be open to see the qualities in eachother they care about.
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Mutual love yea. I don’t want anything to do with infatuation
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You will find it in time. It cant be rushed. It happens out of nowhere most of the time.
You can find it online or in person (which in this world is harder) seems like online is the place to find it.
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