I am making new friends (or at least trying to) and I have this urge to tell them I have schizophrenia or at least that I have a mental illness… but part of me feels like it’s not necessary…
I’ve been trying to reconnect with a few old friends on facebook. Some of them I feel comfortable telling – because it would help explain why I fell off the earth.
I suppose you could hint at the diagnosis, by saying you have a non-physical disability or something. And as you get to know them, if you felt comfortable, you could tell them about the sz diagnosis.
I tell my friends and people who i want to befriend that i have a schizotypal disorder.
To strangers and distant people like neighbors i say that i have a mental illness without going in to details.
I use this strategy because i know people who meet me can see that im a bit different, a bit off, and then it’s easier for me to tell them why, so they dont judge me because im not working or having a family.
I was kidding. I never tell strangers I have a mental illness. Only my close friends know my story. If I have to mention it, I just say I have a mental illness. It’s really no one’s business. There are so many other things that are interesting about you, that people will want to know. Like your baby. And your love for life in general.
If you do that, i think its a better strategy just to tell them why without saying the awful “schizo” word. People are in general very large to mental ilness and the pricks who think you are a looser because you have an MI - well, we are better of without them